I use this after I've kissed her, or before, when I get her to jump through hoops.
I'll say "What are three things that make people want to get to know you better? and they can't do with your looks or personality"
I get responses.

I then say, you know whats really weird (they usually mention all if not two or something"

A good energy, a good connection, and a good sense of humor....two out of three is a good start ( I then rock away to do a takeaway)

they ALWAYS, ask "what one am I missing?" I say "you tell me" or I dunno/.

What else can I say?
Thanks

The Musterion