Hey chaps

So in the last few weeks I seem to have made a bit of a breakthrough in my game and I find that I can open pretty much very easily of my own volition (previously I had to get others to force me into set). Which is all great and dandy of course.

However once one problem is solved the next piece of the puzzle appears, and that for me right now is staying in set, and not having "normal" conversations.

My sets these days follow one of two patterns. (1) I'll open, exchange a few lines with the girl, then kinda stall out and eject myself. (2) I'll open, exchange a few lines with the girl, kinda stall out, then think of something else to say, and end up talking about normal stuff, what they do, where they're from, all that kind of stuff. Usually there are commonalities and some kind of a connection, but it's not particularly sexual and indeed the levels of attraction aren't that high either. It's just a pleasant conversation.

I'd be interested to know if anyone has any suggestions as to how to overcome this, or if you were in a similar situation once what you used to overcome it?

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Nothing wrong talking about each other's interests and stuff.
But keep it funny and enjoyable. Use some c&f lines. Go deeper into the girl's interests and dreams. Then tell them you've always been wanted to be a busdriver but you were never allowed because you wrecked your parents car at the age of 8.


Well. that last part isn't neccesary. But you get the idea.

Yeah, having a bit of normal conversation is a good thing. It gives you real things to talk about, builds rapport, provides personal information about the girl for future conversational references, and as well it keeps you from seeming like some kind of "gamemachine." Even if a girl doesnt know about the PU community, they do pick up the player vibe and if you have nothing but quirky routines and CF ways to divert her more direct attempts at converstaion, she will get the feeling you are a player.

I tend to only use a couple routines, two or three, which I pop on her at opportune moments depending on the normal conversation. So you are DHVing (and hopefully these are true stories, it makes it easier to dovetail it with the normal stuff, since well, it is normal now) and thru these stories you can lead the conversation into good directions. Now that you get there, you have a high chance of getting a good lead up for a routine, like the cube or whatever you play, and then you use her response to have more normal conversation, but you are escalating things of course.

When I say "normal" conversation though, you should still be making her laugh and joking around, teasing, or even better, getting her to go doggydinnerbowl eyes on you..