I had a random Idea the other day at the store. Remember those shiny little gold, silver or whatever colored star stickers you'd get in like 1st grade or something when you did something good? I feel like you could keep a little sheet of them in your wallet (and pretend your lil cousin or sister or something gave them to you) and use them to reward her when she says something cute or interesting or whatever. Maybe get real close and stick one on her cheek and say something sweet as part of a k-close. I like going to concerts where girls are dressed up a lot and it fits that style but I want your guys Ideas as far as specific lines or quick routines where you could use them in a unique way. Also, tell me if that's a really f'ing gay Idea. For some reason I think it would be good for SOMETHING and it could be fun. Maybe you could take it back and tease her after she does something lame. Thoughts, Ideas?

Haha I've thought about that too. I like it. Especially if it worked and even if not then the girl would remember you by a dude was sticking stars all over me. If it worked too it would anchor that if you did it right to you as well. I wanna know if it works. If I get to trying it I'll let you know.

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Yeah, definitely let me know. There's probably a zillion ways to try it I'd like to find what would have the most impact.

interesting idea.

i think this could work great because it puts you in a "position of power" i guess you could say. give her a star every time she does something good or every time she's nice. tell her if she gets enough stars, she gets something special at the end of the night. this is a great opportunity to kiss close.

also, on the anchoring idea, put some stars on her phone, her purse, whatever she has with her. the next day, she'll see the stars and you'll pop into her head.

on another note, i've read a couple other posts of yours and you make them difficult to read because of the lack of paragraphs. i quit reading one of them because it was hard to focus. if you could write in paragraphs it would be a lot easier and you'd get more responses.

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LOL paragraphs! You're totally right. I'm long winded and I type like 6000 wpm. I like what you said about putting them on her stuff.

Wow yeah I really like this. I can also see the targets friends crowding around wondering what they can do to get a gold star too. I'm gonna take this into the field on Thursday and see if it works. Great idea man.

Hey Fellas, this is my first post but I had a thought on this, so here it goes.

First start off by giving a star to one of the obstacles. Then tell then target if she behaves she may get a star later. I'm thinking you should find a way to sneek in a couple of good kino's as well.

This is an awesome idea and i think it would work awesdome. Nice input to from hells angle and captnfun. Im getting some of those and filed testing that tommorow

This is actually a really good idea, just im kind of skeptical about the whole 'why are you carrying those?' thing.

A few thoughts on how to sneek them in... and then what to do with them

Find an excuse to take somthing from your pocket (wallet to pay for drink w/e) and go "haha" and leave them on the table.

Put on a smile and plop the stickers down.

hopefully you will get a question "what are those " then you can go into the whole "my little cousin gets these if she does well on her homework" (wouldn't make sense if her teacher gives them to her, what are they doing in your pocket?) shows that you sorta take care of her i guess... that gives som DHV and potential to build up some kino, like "oh shes so cute when she...."

Start quizing her (might sound lame but i think it could work) when she does well give her stickers blah blah (been coverd in earlier posts)

yea and the whole push pull thing here too. reward her when she does well on a compliance test

If you wanna do the push-pull with it, give some dots for 'bad' behavior

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Yeah i use this. Pretty sweet actually. It kinda always needs an explanation why you have them though. Get some thumbs down stickers to threaten her with when she wont do something. Bring her back to her child days with it.

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i got a fulled weekend planned this weekend, so gonna pick some up from whsmiths before i go out, worth a shot

Great Idea!

If you say you were saving these for your nephew it will show DHV as well as giving you the exuse to carry them.