I am totally into mexican girls ... i just love them. lately i have been hitting on pretty much everybody that i like .. i have never had a gf either. .... i am good with c&f and joking around girls now ...its become somewhat of natural. i have two different situation in which i am stuck .. i need to know what i should do in each one .... i would really appreciate help .

1)location: school , classmate - we been in class two months now and we never really talked. the class ends next week. and if i didnt talk to her .. then i knew i would be baeting myself after that ... so heres what i did . .. right after the class eneded i ran up to her .. and said did you take notes on the exam erview .. she goes yaa ... omg you didnt .. i go can you send it to me . she goes sure why not.

instead of writing email i wrote my number down b/c i didnt want to be talking w/ her through email . the conversation was very fast paced ... i was out of breath because of the run lol.. i just put my number down.. said dont forget and left ... she goes okay yaah ... since i already had everything .. i just wanted to get to know her .

my question on the first one is ..... i am thinking about asking her to meet up with my group so we can do a group study .. do you think thats a good idea ...how should i escalate with her . as far as i know she doesnt have a bf

2)location: work, coworker - she works at a different department . .... shes in highschool . anyways i saw her and i went up to her and asked if she needed help .. she goes YAA Please .. i go okay ... anyways we talk for around 30-40 minutes while working ...... i find out her mom works at the store .. she doesnt have a car and not much of a life and that shes 17.. .so i say if she wants to hang out with us ...i wanted to say if she wants to go otu with me .... but i said with the group .. she goes she has to ask her mom first .... i am like okay .... stayed for another 5 min and left......

my questions w/ second one is.... i already asked her out in a way .. what should i do ... is her having to ask her mom a good thing. i was thinking about getting cool with her mom tomorrow but not asking her for permission for her daughter though ........ so when she asks her mom she would know who i am ......

also if i see her tomorrow ... should i ask her if she asked her mom .. or should i let her bring it up ...

i am reall a afc getting out of his shell right noww.....

edit: you edited and added stuff lol

sorry about that .. .done now ..

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situation one: you could go with the group study, or, you could save some time and make it a one on one study session with her. it's pretty easy to escalate the situation if it's just you and her.

start by studying, throw in some conversation starters, play a couple games with her. if you're looking for more than a piece of ass, ask her on a date, take her to dinner and a movie. i know that sounds old school but that shit works. always stay in control, never ask if it's ok; tell her what is going to happen and assume it's ok.


Situation two: make a good impression on her mom. don't swear, be courteous, and don't slack off work. she'll be more than happy to let you hang out with her daughter.

now, her asking her mom doesn't really mean anything. when you see her, just ask her when you guys are hanging out. this shows confidence that you know her mom approves of you. be assertive and don't worry about what people think of you.

now this thing you have with asking people to hang out with you in a group; it's good if you're really shy and you have a hard time talking to people. if you have a bunch of friends around, it's a lot easier because you can tell stories and other shit like that.

if you're more outgoing at first, i would recommend one on one interaction. this is definately much faster at building comfort, and in a group, it may be difficult to be AMOG and you could lose your girl. if you play the game right, you have no reason to worry. always have a routine in your head ready to go for those awkward silences.

hope this helps

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