| HOW DO YOU TEASE A GIRL YOU REALLY LIKE?
Being able to tease women and make them laugh and have fun with you is one of the most critical seduction skills every man has to have, and yet most men seriously struggle with it.
I want to share with you all, how I mastered teasing/humour in just 2 weeks, using a training process called The Groundhog Method
THE GROUNDHOG METHOD
In 2005, I couldn’t flirt to save my life. I remember it vividly… I’d try to talk to a girl, the conversation would get epically dull and things would go downhill fast. I just wasn’t the playful, fun guy that would hold a woman’s attention for long.
2 weeks later, things changed dramatically…
After Using the Groundhog Method for 14 days, I was making girls laugh every night I went out. I became that guy and my friends were starting to take notice. Girls were commenting to my friends how much fun I was.
Suddenly I was being invited to awesome parties and events by people I had just met. They wanted me at their parties because I was a fun guy to be around
You can easily build the same skill set…. Even if you’re normally introverted
THE 5 STEPS TO USING THE GROUNDHOG METHOD
The Groundhog Method is really simple
Here are the five steps:
STEP 1: Go to an online dating site
STEP 2: Find profiles of women you like
STEP 3: Pick a profile and note standout features
STEP 4: Play with possible teases for 5 minutes
STEP 5: Do 5 profiles like this every day for 2 weeks
Here’s why the method works so well (and what it has to do with groundhogs)
Groundhog Day was a movie starring Bill Murry as a grumpy and unlucky man who is doomed to re-live the same day over and over again. Through this forced repetition, Bill has masters the art of being humble and kind to his fellow man.
Focused repetition is indeed the key to mastering any new skill, and with the Groundhog Method, my goal was to apply rigorous focus for 30 minutes every day on one very specific skill set until I had it mastered – Looking for ways to playfully tease people.
Wanna know how I did it, so you can copy me and get the same results I did?
STEP 1: FIND AN ONLINE DATING SITE
I sought out an appropriate dating site I could use for my daily practice.
There are lots of around. Here are the criteria for what you want:
1. It had to be free to search
2. It had to have lots of female profiles
3. The search needed to enable me to specify my taste in women
The site that I decided on was Plenty of Fish because it met all my criteria perfectly. It’s the site I recommend to all my clients.
STEP 2: FIND PROFILES OF WOMEN YOU LIKE
Plenty of Fish is easy to use for searches. There are 3 search options. For this process just stick to the ‘basic’ search.
This is followed by a long list of search criteria:
Of all these options, there area only 5 sets of criteria that I focused on:
1. I AM A – for obvious reasons I let it know what my gender was
2. SEEKING A – So that it would show me a list of women
3. AGE – I learned to set the age of women to 25-35 regardless of my age. WHY? Because women in these age ranges write the longest profile descriptions which is important for the Groundhog Method
4. INTENT – I selected “I want a relationship”, “I am putting in serious effort to find someone” , and “I am serious and I want to find someone to marry”. Similar to above, I wanted to target profiles that women have put effort into with lots of photos and a decent profile description. Women just looking for casual sex, or nothing serious don’t put nearly as much time or effort into their profiles which would make later steps harder to accomplish
5. ETHNICITY – I put in my favourite ethnicity here as well. This isn’t critical, but women with different cultures often write different types of profiles, just as they’ll have slightly different types of discussions in real life. Better to target the type you like now and get the best kind of practice you can.
STEP 3: CHOOSE A PROFILE AND NOTE ANY STANDOUT FEATURES
I then clicked through each the profiles until I had one with at least 3 photos, and 5 lines of written profile description.
I’d take a moment to have a quick look through the profile. My goal was to lookout for something I felt could be potential banter material.
STEP 4: SPEND 5 MINUTES BRAINSTORMING TEASES
I then grabbed a piece of paper and a pen. I set a timer on my phone for 5 minutes while I wrote down as many possible ways I could joke or tease her about what I saw in her profile.
What was most important to me was that I didn’t hold back on anything that I wrote down. I wasn’t trying to ONLY write down the really good things, instead I was trying to open up my mind to throwing out whatever it came up with in those 5 minutes.
REMEMBER: I wouldn’t necessarily say all these teases to a girl. This is just a sample of ideas that came to mind without being filtered for what would be appropriate to say in person.
STEP 5: DO THIS FOR 5 PROFILES A DAY EVERY DAY FOR 2 WEEKS
Once my timer went off, I stopped writing and found another profile to brainstorm with.
I would repeat this process 5 times a day. I found that after 30 minutes of brainstorming, my brain felt like it had just had a good workout.
It was really difficult in the beginning, but as each day passed, I could feel it getting easier and easier. After a few days, it started to become fun, and I started coming up with some KILLER teases.
Regular practice is the key to changing the way our brains work, so I made sure to do this every single day to ensure my brain would effectively re-wire itself into the brain of a guy who finds playful banter easy.
CONCLUSION
So that’s how I radically improved my flirting skills in just 14 days.
Unlike with canned lines and pickup routines where you have a limited amount of material that might not be appropriate in every context, I was able to think of things to say organically no matter who I was talking to or how long I had known them.
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