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So she says, "I just got out a relationship, I do not want a relationship right now...I want to make it clear we are friends"

So I had a 3rd "date" since the prior post,and I'm getting mixed signals/thoughts.

- I tried to hold her hand in the Friendzone on the third "friend date" , and she giggles and says "we are friends"

Then whenever I send her flirty texts she "lol"s.

I know she is comfortable around me but I dont think romantically attracted.

So like I mentioned before she is 22, very inexperienced and just broke up with her first bf, first relationship last month----> so obviously she is confused trying to sort out her feelings.

IOIs I noticed: she started to copy the manner that I texted, laughs at all my jokes, mirrors my body language..

so the question I would like answered is:

How do I know if she put me in the friendzone b/c
1. she just broke up with her bf of three years

versus 2. She simply doesnt not see me as alpha/ romantically attracted?


The reason I ask is if it is the former, then I will be patient and wait, b/c this girl is worth it (or so my mind thinks at this moment in time).

Thanks to those that reply.

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Here's my problem in all of this. You got her talking about how she feels. This causes you to have to take a step back and make her see you as a sexual being. If you can do that, you'll have no problems seducing her, but I think she is going to be on her guard because she knows that you are into her. You're not friendzoned, but you are digging yourself out of a hole. Flirt...push/pulll and make it your goal to make her confused about how you feel. If you can do that...you'll be in there. Just don't try to make her say how she feels. She'll get there once you start making her feel like she needs to invest.

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I already told her I want it to be my objective to "escape out of this FZ bullshit".......... my mistake?

How do I make her feel like she needs to invest? get her jealous by hitting on other girls? no attention? man I am texting her a few time every day for the past two weeks !

tbh I am really obsessed with her, cant even focus at work at all...

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Damn man...couldnt make it through the other threads on this girl. Just a main theme of desperation.

This is already over. You can either waste time focusing on this chick or fixing yourself. Because things are very wrong with you.

1st sign of her not being interested. Why would you do this?
What?
What? x2
Doesn't get much clearer than this, but What the fuck man? She already told you she doesn't see you as a sexual option. What are you doing?
Ya think?
22 year old virgin. What's wrong with her? no, seriously. A cute, normal girl does not reach the age of 22 as a virgin.
Yeah. "Obviously" she is. She's not trying to sort out anything. She told you plain and simple that she is not sexually interested in you. The only confused person trying something here is you.
Sigh..
She didn't put you in the friendzone. You put yourself in the friendzone by failing to seduce her. Jack replied to every single one of your topics pointing out the same mistake. Stop seeking validation from her. "How did you feel about us holding hands?" Seriously? What are you doing?

And also what the fuck type of woman is this? She's been in a 3 year relationship but is a virgin? I just can't wrap my head around that.
I'm probably gonna suffer a brain aneurysm sometime soon.
She's not "worth it". She's your only option.
How do you think of these things and tell yourself "Yeah, this is totally a good idea. I should totally do this"?
BECAUSE SHE IS YOUR ONLY OPTION

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I admit I am desperate.

What in your opinion is "wrong" with me? I am trying to improve myself.

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Thank you for your reply.

How did I "fail" to seduce her? If a girl tells you "I dont kiss on the first date" after you lose a playful bet what would Mr. R.C do? (you tell me so I know for next time)

This girl isn't your typical college girl, she comes out of an ultra conservative family (her dad didnt even know she had a bf), and is extremely sheltered.

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There was nothing playful about it. You weren't trying to be playful, you were trying to cheese a kiss out of her and she saw through it.
If neo can tell you're desperate from a forum post, you can be sure as hell a woman can tell you're desperate in person.


So then why the fuck would you wanna date a girl like that?

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Thank you for your reply...



Sorry mate, but not everyone on this board just want to get laid and move on, some here would like to actually get into a long term relationship...

ie. I'm in my late twenties.

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you just answered your own question,22 and still a virgin after a 3 year relationship,you are in you late 20,see the problem?????

Sorry mate, but not everyone on this board just want to get laid and move on, some here would like to actually get into a long term relationship...

ie. I'm in my late twenties.[/quote]


you just answered your own question,22 and still a virgin after a 3 year relationship,you are in you late 20,see the problem?????[/quote]

Im only 5 years older.......my parents have a 19 year difference....5 years is nothing.

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Did I read that right? She's a 22 year old cute virgin, had a BF for 3 years, and he never tapped that ass?
.....Naw.

She better start selling cars.

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I believe her , she is from a conservative family. she didnt even want to kiss on first date..

You should know that there are some people who save it for marriage.

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Well...I think we have come to the end of talking about this girl as if she were down on Earth with the rest of us. If we go by exactly what you are saying about her...send her some flowers, some candy, write her a love letter, and wait for permission to escalate to the next level. We can't help you if you play the game by her rules.

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Thanks for this advice.

So this is the plan:

* I haven't texted her (but viewed her snapchats (and she viewed mine) ) since Thursday night, just texted her now ( i know stupid it was hard to hold the NO contact) asking what was the last song on her snapchat. But is was just two texts and I will stop.

* So when should I ask her out to hang again? Last time I saw her was Wednesday. Should I meet up with her this week? (and just like a pure friend with no escalation?) Or no date this week?

* Although I am in the friendzone, I am already flexing on other girls (in fact I am more motivated to flex on girls now)

* So I think I will stay in the friendzone (but show my manly sexual side letting her know I want to escape F.Z. ) ----> but guess what I will be flexing on other girls (maybe even her friends) at the same time... so my portfolio is diversified.

What you guys think?

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