So Ive met this girl on tinder (I know lame). She's incredibly hot. Plus She's got good chat. We've arranged to meet up at the weekend in a bar. I've read a lot from Mystery tried some of it out but tbh its all been with low risk girls. Work really well though. Need some advice for the first meet.

I'm not really into negging. It makes me feel uncomfortable. So thats probably off the table.

Forgot to say she took a while to get back to me. I'm guessing this is tactics

Keep doing what works

What's lame about meeting a girl on tinder?
That's because it's both weird and stupid.
It's not.
Don't slip into that cultish side of pickup. It's much simpler than that.


You need to be flirtatious.
You need to escalate physically.
You need to tease and challenge her.

In other words, have fun but be daring.

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How to keep a girl.

Take some time to think (not over think) before you meet your her.

Why are you meeting her? What’s your end-goal? Are you ready looking to slap a ring on the 1st girl, or going for a bang?

Knowing the answer to these questions allows you to engage in a manner consistent with your
desires. When your intentions are clear, your meeting a lot better.

Then just be yourself, not some polished image you think she'd like.

Make up your mind, in advance, to have fun, be bold, flirty and sexually charged.

Don't go in with any expectations, not being outcome dependent no matter the outcome is, allows you to walk away with a with a smile, or another number for the lay count.

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Thanks very much for the advice lads. Ill take it on board

It's not.
Don't slip into that cultish side of pickup. It's much simpler than that.


You need to be flirtatious.
You need to escalate physically.
You need to tease and challenge her.

In other words, have fun but be daring.[/quote]
Hi. Can you give me some (good) reading material on this (how to flirt, escalate, tease/challenge)? I've read some stuff around the web but there are a lot of things that look too much like a novel to me. There's a lot of stuff that just doesn't even sound real advice. For what I've read, you are able to give sound realistic advice, that's why I'm asking you.

Honestly, I was never one to develop a sexual and flirtatious side of myself. On that note, I'm a bit disappointed on myself as when a meet a girl that I like I generally don't know what to do. I mean, I know how to talk to her as much as everyone else, but not in a sexual way, so I generally end up on the FZ...

I'm asking because of a situation I'm i with a girl (I created a topic a couple days ago). But I want to learn this not learn for this one situation but for my future self.

Well, anyway, thanks. I apreciate it if you can help me.

[/quote] Hi. Can you give me some (good) reading material on this (how to flirt, escalate, tease/challenge)? I've read some stuff around the web but there are a lot of things that look too much like a novel to me. There's a lot of stuff that just doesn't even sound real advice. For what I've read, you are able to give sound realistic advice, that's why I'm asking you.

Honestly, I was never one to develop a sexual and flirtatious side of myself. On that note, I'm a bit disappointed on myself as when a meet a girl that I like I generally don't know what to do. I mean, I know how to talk to her as much as everyone else, but not in a sexual way, so I generally end up on the FZ...

I'm asking because of a situation I'm i with a girl (I created a topic a couple days ago). But I want to learn this not learn for this one situation but for my future self.

Well, anyway, thanks. I apreciate it if you can help me. [/quote]

I agree with you, a lot of shit i see on the internet just kinda leaves me thinking... fuck off do people say this but tbh a lot of it (not all) people do say and girls just eat it up... as long as you can say it with confidence ofc.

i found it easier to find my own way of flirting.. obviously its similar to how others do but if you take lines and responses etc from the internet etc it shows, you need to build a way that fits your personality. practice by text.. much easier to get used to, follow the basic guidlines of flirting and adapt your own style from there.

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