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Ok guys, this one is complicated. I'm an athletic, built guy who looks good and has ZERO game......
Sounds like you have a good basis to start on. Looks are good.
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I will talk to any stranger on the street without fear, due to being in face-to-face sales for over 18 years and being damn good at it. But when it comes to beautiful women, I'm pathetic....
Don't talk to beautiful women. Talk to people. They're just people. Don't hit on them. Talk to them.
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Here's my situation. I'm about to file for divorce after a 13 year marriage. It sucks and I wish it wasn't happening, but I have to deal and move on.
Yeah that sucks. I was married for 8. I've been there.
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I own an eco-friendly clothing line that is growing and one of my customers is a drop dead gorgeous grad student named M. From the second I saw her, I knew I had to have her. The problem is she knows I'm currently married, but I told her about getting divorced. I asked her out for a drink and she said she would really like that.
You knew you had to have her based on looks. What about her? Did you know anything about her as a person? Or was it just because of her looks? What are your deal breakers? Does she break any of your deal breakers?
Some My standards for a relationship:
Younger than me
Cannot be religious
Wants an open relationship/me to fuck other girls/her to fuck other guys
My version of a HB9 or HB10
Must be Bisexual
Wants threesomes
Similar political views
Doesn't want children of her own
Point is: Have you thought about what your standards are, and put her to the litmus test?
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Ater several text back-and-forth she decided she wasn't okay with it after all. I told her I understood that my situation was complicated and not to feel bad. The next part is when I realize now that I screwed up. I proceeded to tell her why I perceive her and what I thought about her. Don't hate me guys I don't know what I'm doing here.
She wasn't okay with it for a multitude or reasons, none of which have to do with the fact that you're still married. I was legally married all the way up until Jan of this year, and from Feb 2015 to Jan 2016 I fucked about 34 girls (50 now).
Being married has nothing to do with it. If anything, being freshly out of a long term relationship/marriage makes you slightly more desirable, as long as you don't appear to be a "rebound." It makes you more desirable because it shows that you are fresh on the market and won't be on the market for long.
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So we have been texting back and forth regularly and seeing each other at the gym on a somewhat regular basis. One of her friends is also customer of mine and offered to be a model for one of my photo shoots to display my clothing line. I told her if she has any friends would be interested to let them know that I'm looking for additional models. As it turns out she's classmates with M......
You're in the friend zone, gym buddy. You're such a nice guy.
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So him sends me a text in tells me that she still wants to help me grow the company And she's really excited about helping out anyway she can. I told her that I was excited to but a little confused with this situation. I told her since I had/have feelings for her I wasn't sure why she was offering. She proceeded to tell me that she was still interested in helping them but only on a friendly basis and if I wasn't cool with that then we probably shouldn't do it.
You have feelings for her? What? Why? How did you get feelings for a girl you haven't even had sex with? Come on, man.
Of course she's interested in helping you, friendo.
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She still really friendly with me now of course and I know she's intimate otherwise why would she be offering to help out and texting me.
What do you mean about intimate otherwise?
Why would she be offering help? Because she sees an opportunity in getting a foot in the door with your company maybe? Maybe she sees your potential major success and wants to be a part of it? I don't blame her one bit. Sounds like you've got your shit together and she wants to get a piece. Good girl.
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The photo shoot is this Saturday and I need to reel her in somehow but don't know what to do or say. She's one in a million and I really need some help.
You're not going to reel her in that easily, I'm sorry. If it were me, I would friend zone her right back, times ten, and hope for the best.
I know there's methods for getting out of the friend zone, but I can't help there. I've never really found myself in the friend zone where I didn't ditch the situation immediately.
I think you should read Models by Mark Manson.
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