Hey gents,

Been single for a month now Im pretty eager to slay lol.

Tanning Girl: So I went to the salon last week and the girl working their noticed me because I played soccer at college with her ex bf. Blah Blah Blah and I go off and tan, planning on getting her number on the way out but shes with a customer. Later on I added her on Facebook and sent her a message the next day saying something funny about her EX because she hates him now. We talk all day on Facebook chat and she says text me instead I hate messenger, nice got her number bitch.

All good, so we talk more and get a bit teasy but nothing to sexual. Says stuff like I could be your first for alot of thing, wink......I tease back alot. She tells me I should come by the salon when shes there so I do the next day. We connect a bit but customers were coming in and out and felt like more like just friends talking. After that she doesnt text me a ton but I hate losing, fucking hate it so Im like Ill win this chick over. Then I find out she works at a bar too so now Im assuming she probably has a bunch of guys texting her, not that I care but its probably pretty easy for her to get distracted or stop talking to a random guy. Im not looking to date and just want to fuck her but she admitted she a very sexual person but also admitted she sucks at texting...hmmmm.

I saw her again really late last night and we joked around for 40 minutes but nothing major again. Felt like friends kind of flirting and I felt a bit of sexual tension there but nothing major. Im giving a ton of cues and flirting with her but shes on the other side of the counter so I cant really touch her but shes giggling etc. Thing is this girl trys to play the I dont care if anyone talks to me, I'm such a badass girl, your no different then other guys, My walls stay down, I dont share me emotions and on and on lol. So Truthfully I want to just bone her and I know shes most likely not down to go on a date. That being said I do think that she is willing to fuck if its the right time, right night, right mood lol etc.

I text her and sometimes she responds immediately but then sometimes she wont responds for days lol. Cant tell whats what with her. So Im not a needy fuck and wont text her until she responds to me. That being said when should I just thrown in the towel and say screw it, because the chase is kinda fun without looking like an idiot and this girl does have potential to be a good Fuck Buddy. The texting thing doesnt seem to be working, I told her to call me and she acted like she didnt get it so thats out of the blue, Date thing is out or I would have asked her already. She manages a local bar and she said she recognized me being there before so I know if I go she will see me. Best case scenario Im hoping she will see me looking like a stud with all my people this weekend where she works..Sweet got a Tinder match.....and then I text her being like we should hang out or something that night and hopefully she bites. I dunno what do you guys think????????????

Bottom line meet more women.

Just tell her; "Listen, I'm not looking for anything permanent right now. I think you're a wonderful girl, but I’ve got to tell you that I know I can't give you what you need right now, and there's no reason for us to do the flirty dance. But I do thing you are sexy as hell, and I would love to spend the night with you, and i can't stop thinking about it."

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I likethat advice! I went to this girls work with a ton of people and was pretty turned up. I was chatting to everyone and slightly gazed at the girl. A minute later I was talking to the bartender and my target girl left, got off her shift. A minute later she texted me saying she just left, she was intimidated. Onceagain off and on for the last ccoupleof days. I flirted with her a bit last night and pretty much told her when she gets back from California to hit me up. Ready to throw herin the friend zone unless she hits me up when she gets back.

Red flag translation; "You should fuck me."

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

So listen to this; After she bounces, and she mentions she left. I respond saying "how about you come back and we hang out "
She responds right away being like "no I cant because I work at 8am tomorrow morning and then again at 4 pm that" blah blahblah. Then she said have an awesome night goodnight....I didnt answer .

So I dont think so bud.

UPDATE:

So I have watching alot of RSD products and reading a ton on PU. I royally fucked up the dynamic with this chick from the getko. That being said this is a total chase and Im using many of the skills I am reading about..overall shits just fun. Im going to go over the dynamic before telling u where we stand now.

When we first started chatting she told me about her ex fionce(4 months ago). She also said she never shares information randomly. She made it clear shes open to me asking her anything, more or less because she wanted me too. Anyways, Like the newbie I am we got into a dynamic where I always texted first and she would eventually respond when she was free or sometimes immedietly. I would always respond randomly and never right away. This is due to me not being a needy fuck and Im actually busy.
I know I should have just been upfront pretty quick and said we should grab a drink or watever and meet up. But I didnt because I thought texting and being flirty was the way to go, watever it happened like this and now I learned. I also didnt want her to think Im really into her so I royally fucked up and said "you know im not hitting on you i just think your an awesome girl". I really wanted to get a reaction but either way she didnt say anything and we continued talking.

BIG PICTURE QUESTION: Anyways from all the random shit going on she went to L.A too see family for 5 days. This is good because I told her when she gets back to hit me up. This will show me if she actually does wanna shoot the shit and feels something or nothing at all. The reason i havent asked her out or been upfront about hooking up or anything is because this girl works at my tanning salaon and manages the bar I always go to. I dont want to make this awkward. so im in a tough one. Take away the fuck factor i i would maybe just hang out with the girl 30% chance because shes half cool. What do i do with this one gentleman??????

Baseline girl lol

Umm... I'd keep trying. As long as you can act like a cool dude doing you, you have a shot. You haven't done anything wrong. Just keep trying to hang out, but don't become a pest. You never know the time and place where the window will open.

Ok, you just posted more... yea that you noted, you made some mistakes early. As long as you don't cross the needy line and look like a silly lame fucktart you're fine! But as others noted, don't get too wrapped up in this ones (or anyones) pussie.

Yea, good advice. Im very strict with my career and other stuff but I do the love the puss. That being said I willl never change or a be a needy bitch with chicks lol. This who category is new to me but so far everything about PUA seems so entertaining and fun to learn. Woman are massive parts of our lives, genetics and so on...Why wouldnt see want to learn as much as we can on how to reproduce with them.

Some girls simply like to play games dude. There's chicks out there that get off more from teasing a guy than they do from actually having sex. I've had girls tell me about their fantasies of tying me up and teasing me... Leading a guy on a little bit is just the start lol

Yea, I can see this check doing this. I gave it a couple days before texting her and then when I did she responded saying "you stopped texting?". I responded by saying I have been busy with work etc. I asked if she wanted to hang out and she once again didn't respond and then the next day she said sorry I fell asleep or some B.S lol. Shes now in the cold leads folder.