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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2016 10:51 pm 
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Hey guys,

I could use some help, she likes me but she says she doesnt trust me 100% and doesnt feel safe and secure with me.

How to improve on that?

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2016 10:55 pm 
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More detail please. Why does she not feel safe and secure? Is it your girlfriend or someone you're trying to date?

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2016 11:06 pm 
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More detail please. Why does she not feel safe and secure? Is it your girlfriend or someone you're trying to date?
A girl i'm dating shes tellin me that a lot that she doesnt trust me 100% and doesnt veel safe i dnno why :D


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2016 11:16 pm 
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You can ask her why she feels that way and get the answer. Or you can take the generic answer of her thinking that if she allows herself to be close to you you'll do something to break her heart.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2016 12:28 am 
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I want to make her feel protected when shes with me, coz i think thats what she wants


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2016 12:38 am 
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I want to make her feel protected when shes with me, coz i think thats what she wants
Not likely what she means.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2016 1:20 am 
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Lol I dont trust you...You write so vague and mysterious.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2016 1:35 am 
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Probably coz im not 'her type' im short with girl hands and stuff.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2016 1:54 am 
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Probably coz im not 'her type' im short with girl hands and stuff.
"Probably" and "I think" is being said a lot. Find out from her what she means.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2016 12:39 pm 
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I always see this as a test.

She wants to invest time on you. Telling you don't go beta on me one day, because you are playing alpha now. Feels insecure about herself not you.

Keep the frame.

OR -

She thinks you are boring. You don't give her emotional stimulation. Because emotional stimulation = emotional investment. She don't want to ride with you. You don't fit the rolemodel. You're only good as penis.

No matter what, keep the frame(but focus yourself and goals).


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Overthinking.

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