Hi guys,

Been back into the dating world now for 2 and a half months. I was at my local shopping mall last Monday. A girl was walking towards me and she gave me this really sexy look. I decided to approach her. I said "hey you just gave me the sexiest look I've had all day". And it went from there. I was nervous as hell but we were laughing and joking. I also had a look at her lips and up to her eyes just to see what she would do. She had a good look at my lips too. So I could tell she was into me. I asked for her number and we said our goodbyes.

On the Tuesday I sent her a text saying "hey its the guy you met at xx and told all your friends about. Hope you're doing great". Two days pass without a response. So Thursday I decide to give her a call. I call and she picks up. I say hey and tell her who I am. She remembers but she seems quite distant. I make an inside joke connecting to when we met. Which she laughed at. Then she says "hey can I call you tomorrow I'm actually in the car at the moment". I say "sure I'm just heading out myself". She then says "if I don't call you tomorrow you can call me again". I say "hey whenever you get the time get back to me". To which she said "call me". I said "I've gotta go so have a great evening". She said "you too, talk soon."

I never expected a call and I haven't had one. I'm not going to call tonight but should I even get back to her? Seems the ball is in her court? Yet some girls do like a guy to do the persuing. I'm not sure what my move is. I feel like leaving it a good 4 days and then shooting off a text...

She will never dribble the ball if it is.

Give her a call and see what happens. I would blow her off if she didn't say call me again. "I'm in the car" is a dumb excuse, but she might have saved it with her asking for you to call. I doubt it though. Probably a lost lead, but you never know, she could be right in relationship shit now, but ready for revenge sex when you call.

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I wouldn't call this girl again until she gets back to me if I was in your position. If she was interested, she would have responded to your text in the first place.

You made the effort to reach her again and she says she'll call you back and later asks you to call her back.

That's all she gets from me until she gets back to me. If she gets back to you, it's a compliance.

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hey, I would call her back, but with a reason.
If you call her she knows that you want something, nobody calls just to talk anymore. Call her, tell her why you called her, and ask her out(knowing where to bring her).

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Hey guys thanks for the responses. I ended up calling. She never answered the phone. But she texted right away saying "sorry, I can't talk right now". So I just left it. The next day I sent her a text saying "what are you doing tomorrow night". Didn't get a response. So I'm leaving it at that. I think I went over and above my persistence level here but she was bloody adorable. Next...

My 2 cents. She looks like is on the medium scale of interest with you. Obviously interested in you to a certain degree, since she does text you back. But the water is just not at the boiling point yet. Instead of asking her out, just text her something you already are doing or going to do. And have her "come join you". That way you're not investing in her more than she is investing in you. Also relieves the pressure...