Went on a first date yesterday and it went great! I knew this girl back when I had a gf so I wanted to test out the waters to see if she shared any mutual attraction with me. The date went great in terms of comfort, but mehhh in attraction because I felt like she brought up my ex a couple times in the conversations. We got to know each other a lot in terms of small talk and knowing what we want for our future and all that. When she explained everything, I threw in a couple of negs and checked out some random girls nearby just to put her back in her place and all that but I didnt get a single IOI in terms of flirting or all that.

I'm sure that I'm most likely in the friendzone but she does want to meet again sometime next week to have dinner again. How do I come back from this? I also forgot to mention she's 23 and I'm 21, so there is an age gap too. I am still fairly new on being a PUA so any advice would help.

Thanks everyone

You find out by making a move physically. You seem to of forgot about doing that on your previous date. Overwise you put yourself in the friendzone

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I actually did make a couple of playful physical moves, and i did make her smile and laugh a lot. But I probably did insert myself in the friendzone. Any tips for the next time we go out though?

Don't do it playfully. Do it directly. Go for it. Fly or crash

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For sure brotha, I'll just be more direct next time. I have a feeling i still do have a chance of catching her off guard since she just found out I was single too. Wish me luck!

Lol @ 21-23 being an age gap.

What's the point of even going on a date if you're not gonna make a move? Just do it. Don't worry, your ego can take a hit.

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Yeah R.C., I agree with you. She does want to see me again though. I'm thinking for the second date, we can go to some beer pong tournament or something to make it more of a 2 person type of deal, and start using more kino into my game.

Beer pong just the 2 of you? lol

Just:
- Play some pool
- Cook some food together (at your house)

No biggy. Get her penis inside her already

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@Dragula: No not just the both of us on the bp haha. I meant her and I as a team or something in that nature against others. My house is unfortunately off limits until night because my stupid tenant has a "no girls policy" she created when I moved in. Aka she knows whats good.

Move out of there

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@Dragula - California rent prices aren't helping my situation at the moment haha. This house is as cheap as it goes. But either way, its easy to sneak girls in and out. Its just a matter of timing.

Well you posted on here looking for advice, which means you care too much to get her to begin with. I figured this out today actually. When your not with her, dont think about her or you are losing the game. If you do think about her just jerk off. My advice. Dont think about her or put much thought into getting out of a fucking friendzone because she probably isnt worth it. Most of them arent. Think about it.....how much is pussy worth in price? Its worth nothing. She knows it. But you need to know it. Then she wont seem like so much of a prize.