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Question One :
Relating to the girl that you've kissed you need to text less and wait for her to initiate things. You need to turn the tables QUICK...mimic her behavior in a way. Raise your value by doing this and she will respect you more if you are interesting and actually have a life...so in other words don't always be available (don't always reply quick either)
Question Two :
Either way works. You want to text, but women do appreciate when guys call. If you call to talk don't make it over 20 minutes, you don't want to get dragged down with meaningless conversations. You can call to make that more intimate and more real connection. You can get away with texting if it suits you better, but calling does make you more unique. Texting is easier though with people who have an eventful and interesting life, it's also easier for them to get back to you through texts.
Best phone game is no phone game. You definitely wanna hang out and a lot more than just twice. Like I said either way works, but I'm just telling you that it is unique so that's a plus
Don't needless text, don't needless call. If you call and she's not there don't stress and flip out like some crazy stalker lol Good luck!
Right on man, thanks. Yeah I agree with pretty much all of that. I am now turning it around on her. She didn't reply to one of my texts for a day, so I'm gonna ignore her little "Hey" text for a day and text her back 'whatsup' tomorrow.
Yeah this mid game stuff is harder than it sounds. She's not the type try to pull a neg on either I don't think. She's a sensitive girl, but she's bossy too. So I'm gonna stall her out, and play aloof to create attraction.
Thanks for the incite though, that helps. I'm trying to get her to hang but she's friend zoning me. Her shop just opened a new addition so she's supposedly 'really busy with work' and she has a kid so apparently it's hard. But she still goes out and drinks with her coworkers. Anyway, I'm pretty sure I'm in the zone right now. But we'll see now that it's June she said she has more time to hang out. We have talked about sex and we did make out with tongue on the second date. I just can't tell at this point if she's using me for attention or if she's really just playing it slow because she likes me. I admit I played it too close too soon and told her that I was really into her when she probably just wants some good sex. It probably made her pull away.
But anyway, yeah I'm gonna play a stall game and stand my ground. Hopefully that will create attraction and work. She's a little odd anyways, not like most girls. She smokes weed too. But we'll see if she hangs more in June. If not I'll just put her on the super stall and answer her texts like two days after she sends them lol.
Right on with the phone call answer too. I think it is classy to call on the phone maybe once or twice. But it seems like girls mostly dictate that for me. I've had times when I called a girl on the phone instead of text and she was a bit awkward. Other times a girl would call me to just initially talk. But even if I'm texting my slant is mostly towards taking her out or hanging out with her. I'll ask her out or ask her to come hang out pretty quick in the convo. Like say the first or second day even. So yeah I agree, hanging out is the quick as well as the ultimate goal.