I'm sorry I'm not sure where to post it I tried in approaching and got ignored :/ So here's the problem
I have a friend but not like my old friends that I know for months and years I know her for like a month and a half and I met her twice. She's amazing in every way and she's exactly my type and I really don't know how to get her to be with me without ruining the friendship that has alreasy been built. I have built some physical and intellectual connection and comfort as well and I'm pretty sure she's interested too I just don't wanna fuck it up. And another weird thing is when we're together she's super nice and kinda flirty but when I try texting her she barely talks to me and can be kinda cold which is the opposite of how she is when we're together >.<
any ideas?

Wow, good thing you haven't put her up on a pedestal, eh?

Consider that she's not amazing... Someone, somewhere, is sick of her bullshit... She farts, burps and her shit stinks too, man... She's not an angel, she's not superior to you.

She is not special. Girls are everywhere and they make new ones every day.

Is your 'friendship' really something you cherish and truly enjoy? (and be honest with yourself here)... Would your friendship be the same if you knew another guy was plowing her while you were her friend?

Two questions before I even advise you about how to proceed:

1) How old are you, and how old is she?

2) Has she shown any indication she's interested in you? You said you're "pretty sure" she's interested... why is that? What has she done or said? A lot of times guys with a oneitis have wishful thinking on their minds when interpreting signs from a girl...

Yeah man I know all that stuff and I try to remember it when I talk to her but it's like whenever I talk to her I have no fucking game whatsoever.
I'm 18 and she's 17 and I'm pretty sure she's interested because I've done a few kino tests and she responded well to all of them. And I didn't wanna tell you guys cause you'd probably make fun of me but she kinda slept in my bed xD
I was a loser and didn't use this opportunity but yeah out of the 3 unoccupied beds I had she chose to sleep in mine which is a hell of an ioi in my opinion

Hey man, sounds like you to be a man and pull that trigger. I'm currently in the same situation as you with a girl I've know for a couple years. Just recently at a New Years party she was giving me alot of ioi's so I got her into the bathroom and went for the makeout and got it. 2 days later she is naked in the back of my truck...

If she is giving you ioi's you have to act sooner than later. Woman will forgive you for making the move and going after what you want but will not tolerate a man who doesn't take what he wants. Obviously you know that you should have made a move when she was in your bed but thats history now. Look towards the future and set something up between just the 2 of you.

Do yourself a favor and read this thread before you see her again.
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One of the best threads I've ever read on here. I read it right before I went to the New Years party.

Be the man she is looking for and take what you want!

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