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Great post. Cool how much you are analyzing things (Reminds me or well me when I first started lol).

Here's the thing about online girls...

If you're on the date, attraction has been established. You may need more, but the focus turns too investment and comfort.
If you don't escalate, you will be called a nice guy. You should try to kiss in the first 30-60 minutes (it's all about calibration, which you'll learn in time). Even if she initially rejects you, it will demonstrate confidence and won't ruin your chances later.
Great job, talking about second date on first date, that builds a lot of comfort.
Don't know what compliments you used, but almost any compliment is too much. 1 compliment about something she put effort into is max. (ex. "I like how you put up your hair")

Keep fighting the good fight man!

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Chris
Dating Strategist
https://structureofdating.com/

Man, you know what? I think you are totally right about this. She actually said to me that she didn't feel this way but it was -- her words -- "only when we parted ways and realized that we weren't going to kiss that I decided that I much prefer you as a friend"

I think your comment is spot on. I guess I assumed that kissing on first dates seemed a bit premature. I thought this was a second-date kind of thing, but are you saying that I should go for it that quick??? Damn! Well if you insist I will try this next time around. I probably should have maybe tried something when were making eye-contact and smiling in brief pauses. If we had sat on a comfy couch and had the ability to kino without being awkward I have a feeling this might of went completely different....