This women has been flirting with me for while, the last time we met in a clube she tried to pull me home with her after my game had been good towards her all night. But I couldn't go due to logistical reasons, we had been texting back and forth and she seemed to be responding well.

So I asked her to hang out:

"We should hangout, grab a drink or something what's your schedule like? I'm away all next week btw"

Two days later she comes back with:

"Aww would be good Mr but I'm not sure if I mentioned to you I've kind of been seeing someone but thanks for asking. Hope you have a great week away:) and it's not all work!x"

so I goes:

Ok cool, thats strike one

she replied

lol

I am probably still in with a chance with this chick, the sexual tension is very strong between us in person.

Yes, her sexual tension with you is so high she just pointed out she's seeing someone!

Sorry to be sarcastic but that's the reality. Read: it's not on for now. *But* just hang with it: you're text reply was really good. A chump would've got defensive.

Chances are you'll stay in touch and be friendly with her -- whilst you do that, you can show your higher value by meeting / dating new girls. She'll pick up on your pro-active nature and if she ever breaks up with Mr, she'll remember you weren't a jerk when she rejected you.

In short: put it on ice. She's been pretty clear with you - and you've handled it fine. Don't blow it.

Agree with you pretty much 100%. But she did try to take me home and the ioi's are pretty strong when chatting face to face. It just goes to show you how much your value can change to women from when shes drunk and your bantering to when shes home sober and thinking hmm im sure i could do better.