I'm texting with a girl and I come up with this after she says she'd be in "trouble"...

"You'd be in trouble if you were a good girl. They like bad boys. You're safe with me."

Analysis:
1. Good girls are not in trouble. By definition they are "good" and don't need to be spanked.
2. "...if you were a good girl." labels her as a "bad girl". Girls want to be a "good girl" so you just re-framed her.
3. Everyone knows that "good girls like bad boys", so you re-emphasize that there is a relationship between you and put it into question. Are we just going to be friends? It might be a neg, might not be, might be...hmmm.
4. "You're safe with me". Women want to control the "Friend Zone". You just beat her to the punch. Now she is spinning like a top. Emotions rise.
5. Does that make me a "good boy"? Maybe, because the word "safe" is used. But not in full context. She's a "bad girl" and you're a "bad boy". We know she doesn't want a doormat, even if she says otherwise. She wants to be challenged by a cocky-funny guy, not an asshole.

She came back and said she had already done the "bad boy" thing and she was done with them, and wanted to know why I thought she was not a "good girl". I responded and said it was because she didn't like "bad boys" - she had confirmed by assumption.

Now she's "Friend Zoned" and pissed. (She just happened to be at the Gyno getting an exam while this banter is going on so she's thinking about her privates). Backpedaling, she opens up and lets me know that she doesn't want to be around an asshole, but she wants friends and "more than friends". I play it down and respond with "Like Superfirends?"

I got the reaction and the information I wanted. All from a few words that can crank up the energy level of a conversation.

Try it! I want to know how it works for you...