I met this girl last year that showed great interest in me however I screwed things off by being too clingy and emotional which eventually got me stuck in the friendzone. She treats me like shit now cause I'm too damn available . I'm going to the US for summer so I won't see her for quite awhile. I know all of you will say to go game other girls and just move on but I really have become obsessed with her...
She made me think that she loved me and BAM LJBF'ed me on the spot. Is no contact a good solution to make her miss me ? What should I do ? please help

Delete her. Life is too short. You're going to the US? Where from? I did the same after university, if you have any kind of unusual accent (I'm Scottish), you'll be beating them off with a shitty stick. Don't waste the opportunity by pining for her. If you're obsessed then you're dead in the water.

It's not so simple... She's in the same school as me and we have a lot of mutual friends... I'm even going to prom with her. I know the process is long and hard and could eventually be not worth it but deleting her from my life is easier said than done.

¿What do you want to do?
Spend your nights in the U.S. thinking of a girl you left back home that isn't even attracted to you? (yet)

Man.. I'd say enjoy your stay in the U.S., have fun, take pictures, travel around, make new friends, meet new girls, party, learn about the locals... If you want her to miss you, post some of your experience in the U.S. on Facebook... That way she'll have a way of seeing what a cool time you're having even with out her.

She doesn't like you now because maybe you haven't demonstrated enough value. Being clingy and emotional once may have triggered many defensive devices in her mind and I bet you she got even more unattracted to you. Time to reverse that buddy. Being with a girl is not the only way to generate attraction, specially if the girl already sees you as a clingy guy who's always there for her. Forget all about the past and forget all about your obsession with her. Have fun and that way your value will increase and she will definitly notice you more when you come back..

If you do post pics on FB, and if she does comment on any of them, be cocky about your activities in the U.S. be playful, don't take things too seriously..

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Why do we get attached this easily to someone that doesn't want us?!

"Why do we?" The real question is... "Why do you?" Because most people don't get attached so easily.

But I can answer your question on the spot anyway... It's because you don't have options.
How? One must really work hard to deceive me into believing that she loves me and some of the things that are necessary for this, I'm 100% sure they didn't happen in your case, so how exactly did she make you? I think she didn't. You made yourself believe this shit.

I'm with the others. Delete her from your life. Man, I came only 180 kms away from home and I lost contact with most people at home. I only talk with my parents and my closest friends and even some of my closest friendships got separated because of the distance. However, I don't really mind it. I've found new valuable people. This is something you need to understand. It's part of growing up: Every person in your life is replacable. It may sound harsh, but this is the truth, and when you meet lots of new people you will see it for yourself.

Peace,

In$tinct

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