There's this girl who I think has been playing hard to get with me for months.

She tells me that her heart's taken by another guy (not her bf, just somebody who she dated for one week but it didn't work out)
She's constantly talking about him, what he's doing and asking me how she should interpret it.
She pushes me away whenever I try to any form of kino escalation.

But, she is always enthusiastic to see me whenever I propose something.

So I thought that she only wanted to be friends. (Especially because she told me explicitly that she wanted to let me know that I'd only be wasting my time with her if I wanted to get with her, because she only wants this guy)

So I gave up. Then she messaged me asking if I wanted to see her at a cafe that day (the first time she invited me somewhere), to which I said no because I was busy. I asked her if she would be free in two days time instead and she said that she would be in another city, to which I replied "Too bad then, have fun." She then replied saying that it's probably for the best. She would just be crying and moaning if she saw me today anyway. So I called her and told her I'd meet with her that day so she could tell me her problems. When I called her, she was crying.

When we actually met, she didn't seem upset at all. Then she gave me crappy excuses that were obviously excuses as to why she was crying. And she started talking about that guy again. I was visibly upset, and she asked me if I was in love with her, to which I just replied, "that just came out of nowhere".

Since then I haven't initiated contact with her, but a week after she messaged me saying that she heard a song that made her think of me. (Once again not something that she used to do)

I don't know what to think now. I've convinced myself that she was crying because I was cold and stopped caring that I wouldn't see her anymore. But at the same time I don't understand why she would tell me the things she did and push me away at any attempt of kino escalation if she was interested. And even if she is interested and is just playing hard to get, I have no idea of what I can do with a girl like this.

Any advice would be greatly apprecaited.

Man, this is a textbook LJBF situation. There are better odds for an alien ship landing on the White House lawn tomorrow that for you ever getting it on with her. With that in mind, you can either avoid any contact with her and focus your time and energy elsewhere, or keep her as a pawn and take her with you to events, parties and whatnot. It will help your game to be seen with a pretty girl on your arm when you roll into the venue. Otherwise, her usefulness to you is zero, unless you are willing to become her unpaid shrink/BFF

Hope that didn't come off too harsh...

hahahahahaha. Good one Redlight

Total friendzone.

Move on, unless you can genuinely handle being just friends.

Dude, she's all over the map. I say get as far away from her as you can. She doesn't respect you. If you were to keep pursuing "which I think is a mistake" don't be afraid to call her on her bullshit. If girls are all over the grid man, have enough self respect to leave and never look back.

Was in the same situation.
Just move on and focus on other things. Stop giving a shit about her she isn't worth it

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Ignore her…MAYBE, use her for preselection, but don't hold your breathe for anything.

Im kinda in the same situation except whenever we get kinda drunk we make out a lot. So do you guys ever kiss at all?

You're the guy she turns to when her obviously terrible guy doesn't treat her right. Just let her be, and go for other people. Random calling when crying is an instant no-no.

It's her way of push pull ( i think?) So when you want to get her although you said yourself, don't know what to do with this girl, You should be more unavailable for those bull shit situations. And be more in venue's were you can demonstra your skills with girls. So try want. or use her as pawn.