Hi! A few days ago I invited a female friend for dinner. She accepted my invitation and the dinner is tomorrow.

It's a girl I have known for the last year and a half. We have seen each other for about twelve times and I find her very attractive but I know that she just want friendship and I'm also ok with that.

My question is about should we do apart dining? Do you have some suggestions of things we could do at my house after dinner? Things that she will find cool, interesting and funny?

Thanks for your help!

its depends on what you want to do with that girl. if you want be friend with her, then i see no point to do more then dining. Its kinda stuck in "friend zone" thing.
anyway, show her DHV next time you meet her. maybe it will help a bit with your game.
good luck.

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Thanks for the tip. Do you have any suggestion of DHV I could use?

Try to make it a bit romantic but don't express it to her.

- Candles & Wine

I usually do this: Invite a girl over for dinner. Get 2 flavor candles (Stocked at home).

Make her remove her shoes. She needs to feel comfortable. Let her settle down. Dim lights. Not too dark.

Ask her what smell does she prefer. The way you say should not sound creepy. I get the IKEA candles very cheap.
I guess $2 for 1.

Open a bottle of wine before serving the meal. Strong eye contact. Give her little info on the wine. Why do you like the wine ? Where is it from ? basically any BS will work. Need to sound intense that you know the shit what you're saying.

I always get this question: Do you do this for all the girls that come over to your place ? Give her a smirk smile and laugh it off. Look her face. If she looks desperate for an answer. She will most probably get irritated and ask you again. WIN WIN

You need to say it in a funny way. Depends on your relationship with her - Don't you think you're special enough / Its just how much I love you / I'm seeing you after a while wanted it to special / Don't know when would your next turn come.

It gets me laid for sure or build enough attraction for her wanting me. You can say 8/10 times.

Don't get nervous. Good luck mate.

Thanks for the tip but it's not too creepy to do all this for her? We are friends and I don't think she sees me as a potential boyfriend.

If you play it right. Calm down and why do you say she wouldn't consider you potential boyfriend material ????

You don't have to keep that in mind. You have to behave / act as if you do this for every other girl who comes to your house.

Its like you have guests coming over so you will clean your house. Just consider her as one of them.


And I meant dim setting. Not like a movie theatre or just extremely bright lights like a stadium.

And remove that thought from your mind that you cannot get her. You have to play it cool

How old are you btw ?

I am 43 ans she is 27. In 2012, after a few dates I invited her to go camping. She then said: "I think you want something more from me". Since then, I only played the male friend role.

Over thinking this dudes!!

Buy a few bottles of wine and drink it during dinner, after dinner talks/flirting and a movie. Get close to her, have her cuddle up to you on the couch and then go for it. Don't over think it.

Thanks guys. Finally the evening went very well. I was very surprised that she stayed this long. She arrived at 5h15 and left at 11h45. We laughed a lot. We played board games, drank wine ... But I am shy to make a move. Two years ago, after three dates with her, she told me: I think you are searching for something more? And I said yes I find you interesting ... Since then, I just played the male friend role even if this girl interest me a lot.

After reading your first post I was seriously going to suggest board games. So you made a good choice. It's all about having fun, creating a good vibe, and enjoying yourself.

Perhaps you're coming across too much as a friend and not as a sexual man. To remedy this, tease her a bit; have fun with it.

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Thanks karib for the tip.

I'm very attracted to this lady but my fear is that if I make a move, I might loose her definitely. That's my biggest fear right now.

If you don't you will loose her anyway. Go for it. She seems interested. You have a chance before she puts you in friendzone.

Do it !!

Yeah, you've been nothing but AFC, too afraid to make a move.

You have to be prepared to take risks. If you don't you won't gain anything. And how could you "lose" what you don't have? Anyway, this has been going on for too long. You're most likely friendzoned anyway.

Listen if you don't make a move some other dude is going to! Then you will always wonder....What if? Don't FUCKING DO that! Strap on a sack and man up and make a move. Who cares if she rejects you at least you know where you stand and you will be able to either fuck her or move on.

What board games?? Suggestions please. With only 2 people, it's hard.