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I think you handled it well there at the end. You turned it into a joke on her and not on you. If there were any other girls in that store they would have watched your social value soar, so all that wasn't for nothing.
I find it too weird for me to ask a girl for her Facebook personally. Its a totally viable option though. Just not my cup of tea. If you didn't do it in the conversation already, lead the conversation towards what she does for fun. Then come up with a reason she HAS to see you again (ex. you frequent the bar she loves; you know of an awesome movie coming out [if shes a movie lover]; etc). Thats something I've picked up so far. Far less rate of rejection because you can paint her an image of what your next meeting will be like.
Unless you build a huge amount of attraction, just asking for the number in general can be risky. But with a legit and fun reason for the number, you should be golden.
You should’ve seen the look on her face, she wasn’t expecting it. Next time I’ll try to keep the conversation a little longer and see how that goes.