| I screwed up with a girl that I met in my paragliding group, cute with nice body. It happened in Turkey, and it appeared I was the only foreigner in the group. I'm going to everything from beginning till the end, as I am also trying to solve where and what mistakes I made.
Because of the fact that I come from Europe [Bosnia], I appear a bit exotic to them, so initial meeting and opening is much easier couse of the genuine interest in someone of diferent culture. But that interest quickly fades away if not for something solid. What should also been taken into consideration is that because of influence of islam and high morale standard pick-up process is a lot slower, kino as well, the girls are just more timid and shy.
On one occasion i get some time alone with her and try building comfort, I tell her that I love gaming girls [actually its a topic girls love to discuss], she shows some IOIs, but again I show her more disinterest [looking away when she speaks, 1 or 2 negs]. When saying goodbye, she squeezed my hand and held it that way for at least five sec, and by her behavior I knew she liked me, At the time I didn't know what I want, I didn't take her number.
The other day I acted as a jerk, bit c&f bit push-pull, joking around with other girls,
And puff everything gone.
Today I barely managed to strike a basic conversation, I was a bit nervous, and she felt it.
I realized some of my mistakes, too much disqualification, not knowing what I want [most important].
Is there a way [witch I doubt] to fix this?
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