I have been approaching a LOT lately. I actually havn't been getting rejected a lot, which is both good and bad. My problem is that i seem to run out of things to say often. When that happens, i get kind of paranoid, and turn into a jerk for some reason.

Girls havn't been running away from me when i run out of stuff to say with them, it just gets kind of awkward, and we part ways awkwardly. I guess in a way i am getting rejected, because the girl gets bored, and we part ways. I need some stuff to say, or a game plan when this happens. Any ideas?

I'm actually a funny guy. I have pretty descent cocky funny humor, as you guys call it. But, when i'm with a girl, and i sense the first bit of disinterest, i clam up, and get super paranoid, and lock up.

I'm curious what your intentions are when you approach these girls.

If it's sex, are you showing her that that's what you're wanting, or do you "act" like nothing and never mention anything about sex. Ie... "hey you're kinda cute AND you got a really nice ass; what are you up to later?"

Then you "calibrate" her response and LEAD the interaction from there. 90 second interactions is kind of a "general" rule I promote.