Hey guys, I'm having my self a little problem here. The thing is that there is a girl in my class that I've always liked, we turned out to become good friends but I never did anything to escalate since I was afraid of messing things up and then being stuck with her in class and because of we are both doing exchange programs coming from different countries and heading back home in less then 2 months now.
But, last weekend we went out clubbing together, and I accidentally got super drunk, I mean drunk of my mind, and in between the episodes of blackouts and somehow ended making out with her on the dance floor(didn't go further than that)
Now since I've already jumped in the deep end of the pool I don't really care about messing things up anymore or that I'm leaving for home, I just want this girl. But my problem is that I've no idea how to pull this shit in class, specially since I sit next to another chick. I tried to get her out today so I could get more stuff in before class but we have exams next week so she suggested to go out next weekend.
Anyways, any ideas on how to pull this shit in class? I'm fucking clueless on how to keep things fresh for the next five days until we can get some alone time again.

Edit: Actually I just have no clue on how to pull this in general, I always been super afraid of commitment and just stuck to the one night stands. I don't wanna come out to needy but still I need to escalate pretty fast.

This is why you don't drink and game.

In her mind, logically she feels that sex is the next step. If you follow the M3 school of thought, (which in my opinion is the best base ideology) then the problem her is that you went from just friends to something entirely weird and different - it was a shocking transition, and because you were blackout drunk you have no idea what you did how you acted or how you can even display congruence with that side of the personality you showed her.'

Congruence between stories, body language, and personality imo is the place where most guys crash and burn. You can't seem like two different people.

I'm not saying you can't get this girl to sleep with you - the time constraint of both of you moving, and the fact that there is no "slut shame" from anyone else because it's essentially like you are on vacation - both of those will work wonderfully to your advantage.

You didn't make plans that night, and you made out with her in a public place, went to far too fast, and now she probably has buyers remorse. She didn't have to work toward it.

We also weren't told how drunk was she?

A pickup artist keeps a clear head - and has morality and ethics, remember that. Leave em better than you found them. Let the women know that you are a sexual person and don't apologize for it, don't try to trick them into sleeping with you - and they will literally jump into bed with you. An alpha male doesn't have to use deception and deceit to find a mate in the tribe right? He has his choice. This is you.


However, the advice I would give you is think of a boring mundane task that you are going to do. For me I sometimes use accessory shopping, a car wash (where you pay people to wash your car) or even doing my laundry and I'll be like I'm going to be x doing y you should stop by to chat.

These 2nd meetings are much better off if they aren't about her, and are not necessarily a date but just hanging out. Think about it. If you were really trying to impress a girl, would you be hanging out with her doing laundry and having her laugh at your hot pink boxers (I suggest having a couple of really interesting items in your laundry bag, so she can make fun of you and have an idea of what you want to say back)

I'm not sure of everyone else's opinion on this, but so far it seems like solid game to me?

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I agree with ImStatus on most points except for the "mundane" day 2. Reason for this is I think you generally have much better odds of getting a day 2/3/4 if it's something exciting/she isn't used to etc.

For example last week I had a day 1 with a girl off pof, we'd pre-arranged I was gonna take her to a little ice-cream sorta place I know of that hardly anyone in my city knows about (she isn't from here either, travelled 15-20 miles to meet me) and we'd also talked about how she'd never played pool before, so I was gonna teach her how to play pool (aswell as do a couple of other little interesting things). After that (only 2 hours into the date) she was already asking when she can see me again, started plastering over facebook what a great day she'd had, that she'd learnt to play pool and various things like that.

Now for most of us playing pool would be relatively mundane, but it was a new experience for her which made it exciting and she then got excited about the prospect of seeing me again (aided by being sober and having my wits about me I may add).

So to sum up, in my opinion I'd suggest finding something she can get excited about, ramp up her interest in it, then suggest you do that activity together. (Incidently the girl from my example above, I saw again 2 days later and our next planned date is to engage in coitus)

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You misinterpret mundane as meaning something that can't at all be fun.

I.e. day 2 mundane means something you are already doing. If you go all out ice cream pool etc - a 10 will see that as tryhard, just like every other guy.

Your ice cream date is fine for 7s etc, but for 10s it's a different ball game from my (admittedly limited) experience. You have to convey total comfort and appear like you dont give a fuck, and at the same time escalate kino and make sure there is plenty of sexual tension.

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Hey guys thanks for the replies and sorry for my late one!
This all went as good as it can go, she was also drunk that night which probably saved everything. A blurry memory is not as strong as a sober one.
Anyways the first day at school after this I realized that she was kind of avoiding me but after class she texted me so I realized that there was still a shot, so the day after we went out for pool, we've been hanging out literally every day after that and most of the time she's been sleeping over at my place
But yeah, regarding to PuAs don't drink and game, I agree I should drink less, I don't drink often but when I drink I often drink too much. But then again I don't look at my self as a PuA, I've never read any books, or watched any videos, I just stumbled on this forum and I like reading other peoples experiences and mistakes and share mine with them.