Hi,

I'm new and still an afc. I would love to try some stuff out though.

Situation at the moment:

I am currently in SA a where i work and live but used to live in Holland. This girl is over for a week from Holland for work she has to do for us here in IT.

I have shown her around a bit and went out to dinner with her and we talked a lot and we click really well. Never ran out of things to talk about and had good laughs. However I feel like I can't generate any attraction with her. We have a lot of things in common. I think she does perceive me as someone with high value because I'm running the project that she is working on and got some good stories off.

What can I do to generate attraction now so she doesnt just think of me as a cool nice guy/friend/ workrelated. She is here for a couple more days. 1 of those days all staff is off here but we both have to work so we will be just us.

Thanks guys!

Attraction = acting like a real man. Here are somethings
1) Have an authoritative tone of voice.
2) Neg her sometimes ( A trick for this would be to complement her on her dress or something and then most probably she will complement back to you "oh you have a nice shirt too" then you say in a "flirtatious tone are you trying to hit on me")
3) Don't smile too much and don't have a crooked face also just in between like no emotional expression. This works because woman usually ping of the other person if they see you smiling they think they're impressing you, if you have crocked face they think your not interested in them, if you have no facial expression they get confused and try to get you to smile and give them validation. At times when she makes a good joke or something you should smile but not all the time.

There are many more things but due to my limited time this is what I can advise you on. Good luck!

- Amazing Art -

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Thanks. I think i'm doing that pretty ok. No sparks yet though. Got 2 days left

I thought you wrote this while you were with her!! HAHA

If you are taking her out to dinner, just you and her, I think that it is more than likely that she is already attracted. I think you are over-analyzing it and you need to just change your frame of mind.

If I could start off going out with a girl then generating attraction, the time with women would be much easier! Just continue assuming she is already attracted to you.

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