I got really involved with this girl which was very controlling and emotionally mainuplative. She does alot of attention seeking and recently she said to me " You have no idea how I feel, I get the message i could never be with you or w/e "
She has told me in the past she loves me more than anybody else and that I mean so much to her. I've been freezing her out recently and have not been speaking to her. Due to her becoming cold, and not speaking to me as much. She doesn't SPAM with me anymore. And I became too needy, clingy around her. And she knew that. She now has the power in the relationship. But whilst I was freezing her out,
She came to the conclusion that I didnt love her or whatever. She is probably upset about this issue and feels bad. She said to me that she was upset and hurt.
She sent me these messages on SPAM today.
My message to her before I started freezing her out was this.
"Alex
[24/04/2012 21:50:19] Alex: Hey there ellie. you Do Understand that I'm really into you quite alot. and I would love to go exclusive in our relationship, but I just feel right now like you're in a place in your life where you need to sort some things out. You do mean a lot to me, and I hope it's likewise, but I don't want to be a "rebound" guy. It's not fair on either me or you.. I want you to take some time to do what you need to do. Sort your problems out with your mum. Get your life sorted out with all these online lads. And if they do mean more to you than I do. Then good luck with it all. I hope it does all turn out for the best. Just get back to me when you're ready to start a fresh. I'm very serious about this. I don't want to talk to you until you're sorted out, not because I don't care about you. but It's just because I want to give you the time you need to focus on us. without any distractions. Get back to me when you're ready and In a better place xx"
online lads
[17:49:58] HB and the fact u say this means u didnt care atall
[17:49:58] HB: lol
[17:50:04] HB:: did u think id react nicely
[17:50:06] HB: cya
[17:50:09] HB: logging off'

Whats your opinion/advice to go from here guys? Ive met her once in real life, we exchanged a hug. Nothing more. I'd possibly like to see her again.
I have her phone number so I can text her if thats what you guys think I need to do.
She wants me to chase her currently.

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Alex, Pimp in training.

Continue your freeze out. Go meet other girls.

You've met her once in person, I don't think there is anything solid here. Next time she msgs you, you can try calling her to come chill with you right away. If she does, then shes fairly interested.

Escalate fast. If not, I'd move on.

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