I am a bouncer at a bar, and it is a great way to meet chicks. I am sober they are drunk and come up to me and flirt and kiss all night. I have to stand in one spot pretty much the whole night. This bar has HB 9 - 10s all the time.

I meet an HB 8 last night and she kept coming up to me the whole night and hugging and kissing my cheek. She introduced me to her best friend. Then I asked for her number and she gave it. She didn't seem too drunk, I am usually good at determining when someone is drunk cause if they are I have to kick them out. I texted her when I got off work at 2 AM, but she said her friend was sick and she couldn't hang out. She called me ten minutes later.

The next day (today), I texted her and asked if she wanted to go to the beach and chill, I knew she had a hangover so I didn't want to go for drinks. She never really answered in the text, so I guess that means no... I have been really sick of the stupid texting games and rules girls play by lately, so I just said whatever and called her. I figured this would be way better than wasting my time with possibly days of text game. She answered and we talked I invited her to chill, and she said she would call me later. She texted a little later and wanted to reschedule for another time to watch a movie at my house... any suggestions? Should I drop it?

Why drop it? Play it through until the end.. give it a day and call again to invite her over. If she doesn't respond then you know... if she does, make it rain my friend. Better to try and fail than not to try.

cheers

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keep in contact, text her. Don't keep inviting her out, she will keep turning you down. I say don't do more then two invite per month. You don't always wanna be available.

My home girl doesn't know game at all. I was having lunch with her. This was our conversation:

Me: Going bar hopping tonight, you should come join us.
Her: I was suppose to on a date tonight, but I will come join you guys
Me: You should just go on your date
Her: No, I got him, I can go out with him anytime I want.

she canceled because that guy is always available.

I don't think you should text her just to keep in contact. Or obey a rule that states 2 invites per month. I think it will go stale for sure this way whereas if you give her another call it could work... Last time she didn't turn you down she said another time. "Ouch" is right to say don't be too available, that's why when you call its good to let them know when you're available. "We can see a movie at my place Friday or come t-shirt shopping Monday." Insinuating that otherwise you're all booked up.

Goodluck!

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thanks guys