Here is more info on this sticking point of mine: Handling silences.

I have gotten good at not letting awkward silences happen for the 30 minutes. But after that, it seems that these silences occur naturally, at least with me. I would guess good PUAS keep such silences to a minimum and sometimes use them to see what the girl will do and make her work too.

But I think, I am get uncomfortable with the silences and transmit that discomfort through probably some subtle tension showing in my body language, looking around, saying "so...."

I would think some good PUAS can transmit inner peace/game in those moments and I know this should not coming from pretending inner peace. But hell, Im still working on that too some (im ok, for the most part an optimistic outgoing person with shy-isms and "normal" insecurities.

But I am convinced there have to be some techniques, ploys, tricks, to help oneself learn how to more calmly deal with silences in a hot chick scenario.

Around chicks Im not into, family, friends, I care very little or not at all about the silences but......I have a hard time re-creating that "dont give a fuck" warm feeling around hot chicks....

Phewww! So......?

What do you all think?

Your advice and opinion would be appreciated. If there is anyone here that is advanced perfectly undersdands my sticking point and wants to "give" some time to talk on the phone with me, I would really appreaciate that (SPAM?). Im in the US.

Thank you

Reflex