So I met this chic at the parking lot of my apt complex. There is some history there bcuz she is a waitress at a cool restaurant near by where I was at the bar for happy hour early this week.
So we kinda have some mutual friends and stuff, so I guess we know each other but never really spoke until that day at her restaurant when she came around the bar where I was and starting acting like she was lining up the bar chairs
. So I knew what I was supposed to do and without hesitating I am like "hey, what's up" then we started talking about nothing in particular. I told her like this weekend I might be heading out to the club and if she wanted to come and she said "sure, why not" or some shit like that. But I did not ask for her number. When it was time to leave I walked up to her and said bye and she is like "bye" whatever.
Then a couple of days later she sees me in the parking lot and we start talking, the point is she ends up asking me for my phone number, she is like "let's exchange numbers" and I am like "sure, just dial my number would you?" and then I give her my digits and so she dials and my phone starts going off in my pocket. So we say good bye whatever, and as I walk away I say "hit me up so we can hang out".
Now my question is, she asked me for my phone number, so in turn I told her to call me, so I feel like I have lost control of the pick up, I can't set the pace and I am trying to figure out how can I regain control or if I should just wait for her to call me like a complete pussy or if I should man up and call her and try to set the pace. Don't mean to sound like an AFC. I have been going out every day for this past week and have been doing ok but I am nervous that I am acting as if I give a fuck with this girl and is totally ruining my game.

Yeah call her.

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You went out for one week? Wonderful, did you went out with any expectation what you can actually get afterwards? If not then just try to call her and train on her. This way you always win! Either it is a good learning outcome what not to do, or you got a new girl.

In any case. If you go out partying and get the first bunch of girls its the best thing for your later relationship. Why should you feel needy if you can find the next dreamgirl in the next party?

I think I just might call her, cuz I don't wanna give her all that power of sitting here waiting for her to call me and then when she finally does I am going to internally act like I have been waiting. Even if I run game, her internal sixth sense is going to tell her I am happy she did bcuz she would be able to smell any signs of weakness. Aka, going out with her after she calls me. (solid sign of passive interest)

Hejsan

I like your positive view. I agree, it's like if I don't call her then I won't know, but then if I call her and smell any rejection whatsoever then I would have gotten a free lesson that I won't forget. In the other hand, when I call her and everything goes well, I'll have sex with (this girl is at least a six). But she is confident as if she was more than that. She does look away when I hold eye contact though.

But I loved your concept of continuing to go out. And the mindset of "I don't need her bcuz I have hot girls a night out away is golden"
thanx guys

If you're nervous.

Scrawl a couple of things to talk about and an idea for when you'll meet up next. To avoid your brain going blank mid call. Tick it off as you chat. Don't worry too much about the call being too short or long or charming. As long as you chatted about something and arrange to meet up.

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Yeap, well we exchanged numbers on friday night. I guess we let the weekend go by but I think I'll call her between tomorrow and wednesday. I am just letting a few convo ideas pop into my head. I catch fire with stuff like that some times.

thanx bro