Ok, So there is this girl who I really had a thing for back in highschool. Needless to say at the time i was the epitome of an AFC at the time. I went for it, tried as hard as I could and miserably failed.

I had a childhood friend back then that was constantly AMOGing me, he not only ruined my chance with her but drove her to another guy which ruined it for both of us.

Here I am 3 years later, I'm only 20 years old. I've been at constant work on my game and have completely kicked most of my AFC habbits. I came accross this same girl recently. I only got so far as to get her on facebook, she's been with the same guy since then, we talk every once in a while, I'll hit her with a random question and we chop it up for a bit, a little flirting here and there, but honestly im new to this type of situation and would greatly appreciate any advice.

Im kinda new to all this pua stuff.... but my experience says, and someone will probably confirm this, you must get to meet her, otherwise, it is going to stay as "the guy that hit on me in HS and we just chat a little bit over fb a couple of years later". So basically you gotta meet her in order to show her how you have changed. And if she says that she can hang out with you but her guy is coming over, dont decline, just go and AMOG him.

I am in similar situation. Perfect (!!) blonde. It has been probably 5 years since we saw each other. Now I am a little better with girls.

I also think you shouldn't chat with her over the INTERNET.

I plan to take her out. Talk about old days and then direct, escalate, get her.