Hello,

I have som problems now what do next with a girl i met out the last weekend.

I was walking out of the nightclub and i saw this girl and starting to talk with her and very fast after opening we started making out. Had som pauses between the kissing and she was laughing and i thought now i have her.

But offcourse she was there with a friend and as the friend had to go home this also girl had to go. But i got her number and she got my number.

When this week started i sent her a message: "You and me together out next weekend. Which day are the best for you? Friday or Saturday".

I got no answer from her. Then i added her as a friend on facebook (desperate but i really like her) and sent her a message.

Hi, haven´t you got the text message from me on your mobile phone. I hope i was not to drunk when i met you last weekend. But i remember that i met at beatifull girl.

She: Hi, so nice to hear. But i have not got any SMS from you? Dont think about that, everyone are drunk sometime. I also was drunk and maybe not so charming.

Then i was thinking that she was only kissing with me because she were drunk. Bad confidence from me thinking like this because i can´t remember that she was drunk. And another point why would her accept the request if she is not interestede anymore?

I sent her a new message on FB. ME: Isn´t your number ********** ? You were charming.

She Yes thats number is mine.

Me And you haven´t got any SMS from me... Strange.

She Right, you should try and send again then



So should i just ask her out or get her more interested before?


Sorry for bad english but this is not my language

Ask her out again. It's possible that she didn't get your texts. If she flakes on you, or denies going out with you for lame reasons like "I'm really busy" without being specific, then I would move on, because it's likely she did get your texts the first time, and chose to ignore them.

Chat back and forth a bit over text before you ask her, and don't give her options. Asking "friday or saturday" lets her know you don't have shit all to do on the weekends, which is not the appearance you should be giving off. If anything, she has to earn the weekend date with you. She'll also be more likely to accept if it's on a monday-thursday.

What should i chat about before i ask her out or can i just ask her out?
You and me together Saturday evening. Meet my at the ***** 8 o clock?

Its not in my nature yet to pick up girls at FB like this

OK. So it actually was someting wrong maybe that the messages didnt come through. But i send her a new message about going out and she said she wasnt able to go because she was going out with som friends.

BUT she said that she really would like to go out with me on another day and i asked if she was available next week (this week) and she said she was available everyday after 1600. OK this is not bad sign i thought. We agreed that i was going to send her a new message in the beggining off this week when we should go out.

Today i sent her a message but no answer. What should be the next move now? Wait and see if i get any answer before i trying to contact her again? I really like her.

So i should just wait a couple of days?

Give her a call on Wednesday after 1600. You'll bypass the chance that she doesn't receive your message, and you'll be able to know for certain if the date is actually going down from how eager she is to figure out the logistics.