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Alright thanks for the advice! got any tips on escalating things??
There're a few methods for escalation. Most of them are quite good actually. But really I find that in escalating it's not the "what to do" that is hard but the "how to". I think noone is that stupid that he can't realise what does gradual escalation mean. To first touch the less sensitive things, like her shoulders and the up of her back, and after that to move on to her face, lower back, knees, thighs etc.... So I'm not gonna talk about this. I'd like to give you useful advice, so I'll give you tips on what can you do to make the escalation the easiest possible.
First, eye contact. Strong eyecontact when you touch her. You don't look at where you put your hands you look her in the eyes. This keeps things natural. There's a technique, in which you imagine you're fucking her hard when you look her in the eye. This requires bit of practise... you'll now why when you first try it, but it really works. It makes your eyes what women call dangerous.
Second, keep it close. Keep her as close to you as she lets you. This does two things. First, it increases sexual tension and you always want some spark going on, and just being close sets the base. Second, it will make the escalation easier physically. You have to make shorter moves because you're close, therefore it will be much easier, it's this simple. Yeah I know about that leaning back thing. It's cool, but how do you want to escalate if you lean back? You have to get her close to you if you want to do something productive.
Third. I just love this, and you will too as soon as you get comfortable with how to use this. It's like the fucking secret golden weapon. It's called THE CLAW. The claw is executed by putting your hand around her neck from the back. It demonstrates confidence, gets her the feeling that you own and protect her, it also makes a kiss so easy it is unbelievable. Now you could have a hard time clawing her while you're just sitting in front of each other, you'd need to be besides her for this, so do this when you're moving somewhere. And keep it casual... don't hang on her for like hours, just let go after you feel it's time to.
And for last the most important thing about escalation: Don't hesitate. Go for it. Remember you've nothing to lose, so why not just go for it? The worst that can happen is that she rejects you and you learn from your mistake. That's why you're here aren't you? To learn. Well let me tell you, we can't teach you. We can give you hints, and suggestions but you will have to walk the path nontheless.
CHAT