I have just got a new gf.. when we first started talking it was great there was such a spark always texting she would send me dirty messages and pics (which i loved)

Since we have been together the last 2 weeks she has gone very quite hardly texts me, ill text her at 11am and she will then reply to me about 10:30 pm.

but then when we do text its all good until I say to her you want to come to london on your day off on sunday ...nothing no reply at all?

we do live an hour away from each other.

how do i get her interest snapped back on me and like it was before?

any help at all?

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I would try to call or SPAM her instead of always texting. Don't put yourself in the situation where you feel like shit because you didn't get a response. It sounds like that hurt feeling you're experiencing is probably killing some of the energy and passion you displayed before which she was likely attracted to.

It's hard to rediscover the spark without being around the person. Is this "new" relationship making you happy? Being an hour away is a tricky deal because you're close enough that you could see her any day, but it will always be an effort.

The main point I would like to make is that when you said "but then when we do text its all good until I say to her you want to come to london on your day off on sunday ...nothing no reply at all? " You texted this... you can't convey energy and get her excited to see you through a text. (Or at least its much harder when you can just call and get her pumped!)

One of the girls I am seeing moved to L.A a few weeks back for a couple months during pilot season as an actress and while I typically don't do the whole exclusive thing, (personally, it doesn't make me happy) we have been keeping in touch through SPAM and facetime. I don't text and she knows that so I allow her to interact with me while we can see each other... read each others facial expressions, communicate almost normally.. I find I can amp up the anticipation of her return this way and keep her excited and interested. Also, there is no replacement for in person, but its always fun to get a nice sexy display every now and then if you catch my drift... anyway I hope these mediums can help turn it around for you!

Cheers

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The answer is simple, find out what she loves, and make a date centered around this theme. It shows you listen to her, know what she likes, and a man and willing to make a date.

Go to her instead of you saying come to london, why can't you be a good boyfriend and surprise her. Now on valentines days flowers is cliche, but a random day in the week and your a fucking gentlemen. So grab flowers surprise visit, and light those damn candles.

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cheers guys thats great help..

I did try and suprise her i came down to surrey to see her and took 4 days off to spend christmas together but again she kept blowing me out and we saw eachover once?

and she never answers her phone its annoying she moans thats our relationship id just texts.. but i make the effort to make it more then that but when i do its like it freaks her out?

Listen mate are you enjoying yourself with this girl cause you don't seem happy, rather annoyed, obviously you like her being around but I think you should be in a relationship where both of you put an effort to speak to the other. The whole childish games she is playing is cute at first but in a relationship who are you kidding? You are going out with the person (or she is going out with you in this case) because she likes you, otherwise she would dump you.

I think you should be careful, she might not want to hurt your feelings and secretly want to dump you. It is a known fact that girls think about this way before they do it, hence why when you break up the girl usually recovers way quicker. The truth is she has had time to get over it (unless she is just a party girl new guy every week kinda thing)

I know it hurts to hear this, try and make it work, but if she is growing distant from you there is a reason, be a man and do somethig about it. You can get another girl no doubt, start talking to some chicks just incase things go bad.

Otherwise I really do wish everything works.

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yeah i guess your right man, like im a footballer and i try and take her all these nice places and she doesnt want to know and mabe i should go with one of these other girls that are making the effort,
The main reason i liked her was because she was differnt not a golddigga and has an attitute but this is taking the piss now..

Next her.

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next her?

Pretty much bro remember this saying from your mom when you had your first crush "there are other fish in the sea" What Ashton was saying is next her, and I agree. She is not worth your time, at this very moment while you are with her, you are unhappy, and not getting what you deserve. I think you need to get a new girl, and it might be hard, but when you meet girls dont mention your a footie player, just let them ask you, and when you respond say I just work with entertainment, make them want to find out more be mysterious.

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cheers bro will do

Why you don't you call her? as simple as that, if you call her she's going to give you much more information to work with.

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she never answers her phone buddy.. its cool i have just left it now... its funny now ive stopped making the effort she seems to be making more :/

Sometimes that happens, now the important thing is how you are going to play it.
Take care and if you have any doubt about the whole seduction thing just send me an email at fcgame007@gmail.com and I will help you out

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will do cheers bro