Definitely just need help with mid game. Conversations for me end after about 5 minutes and just get stale. I just Want to be able to have the ability to converse for an hour or so if I wanted. It's getting difficult for me. If anyone can help a noob out with some one on one time thanks.

Yo man you should of checked for previous threads on the forum first but here's one of my recent posts on building rapport you can check it out.

here-vp587551.html#587551

It's kind of jumbled on this site and I don't know where to look to be honest. I've been reading a lot of different sites. I'm frustrated. Im losing the faith here lol. I'm just trying to get this situated so I can be at a piece of mind u know. Thanks for the link!

a couple things you need to work on:
1- have a life
2- be observant: notice things
3- talk about what you want to talk about - who cares what she thinks?

1. is the most important one. What I mean here is you need to ask yourself theses questions. Who am I as a man? What makes me unique? If my life were a movie, would people want to watch? Do I have a life that invites other people in?

Do something crazy! STOP SARGING. Go out on an adventure instead. Go meet people. I have smth I always say and feel free to quote me; If you havnt done anything crazy this past week, you arnt living life! Live your passions, get out there and do something unusual. You have nothing to talk about and I dont blame you. What are you going to talk about? The time you sarged that girl and you got interrupted? Or the time you direct approached a girl in front of her mom? Most guys in the community fail because they have no identity outside the community. Be extraordinary, youll never run out of things to talk about

2- Be observant. Look at her! What does she look like? Does she have an accent? Does she have tanned skin? Does she have blue eyes? Does she have a cool bracelet? "You must be Israeli!" -"yes I am" -"Iv never been to Israel! Come *take her arm* we are going to Israel!" after you both laugh a bit, you can start talking about her country, your travels, her travels, tease her and off you go smoothly into rapport.

3- this is important: SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY. If you run out of things to say, experiment with talking about how you feel! "Gosh you are just SO adorable, look at you! Im at loss for words, this is ridiculous!" You wanna talk about the randomest shit ever.. DO IT. Who cares? its all good practice.

Good luck mate

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Thanks bro I definitely have a life. I travel. Im in a frat I do community service. I work. I have kids. Im a budding personal trainer. I just lack creativity for real thats my problem. A lot of people love me I just have a problem holdin conversations with strangers. Your points are definitely an eye opener. I guess my fear of bad conversation and awkwardness clouds my mind so much. Ill definitely use these tips thanks bro!!