This is something I was thinking about earlier this weekend. You see I met a few hotties and closed pretty smoothly, just having some fun and refreshing my game after a long LTR.

Have you ever talked with a chick and everything went smoothly and sometime over the course of the approach, you walked away with the number feeling ten foot tall, then when you talked to her the next day, it just didn't seem so smooth. sometimes it seems like everything goes on and off from smooth to lets say.... boring?

Don't let that evil temptation to doubt yourself come into the picture... alot of people don't seem to think about the fact that girls have stuff going on in their lives ( ex's, work, maybe children, family, divorce, blah blah...) You need to realize that she has given you her number, and if she's talking to you then she hasn't flaked. She has made room for you in her life so far, and if you don't screw it up she will have to make much more room for you in her life.

This is something all girls think about when they meet someone new... Just like we think about how this girl is gonna look being in our lives she will do the same. It's really a simple thing, but I have so many friends come to me worried about that one awkward moment when she doesn't seem to be as interested and I have to explain to them that she's most likely thinking about what it would be like to date them.

The main key here is not to let yourself get discouraged and stop worrying about whether she likes you or not. If she doesn't then there are other girls all over the place. If she does whoopdedoo don't get stuck just yet make sure you actually like the person she is. Make sure there isn't another girl that you like more. Seriously my most commonly bit of advice I give anyone...RELAX and have fun!