There is this girl I want to make my girlfriend but she doesn´t trust me at all because she thinks I´m a total player. All of her friends hate me. Last night I invited her to a party and we got into an argument about if I am trustworthy or not - her friends told her that I was flirting around. I´ve also kiss closed some of her friends and f closed one.

Its such a mess.

Today, after waking up from the party i message her

me - Hey Julia, it feels like shit. I want to continue seeing you, do you? I didn´t flirt with anyone yesterday:P thats the way I talk to my mom, my teachers and everyone else. Its like saying you grabbing your guyfriends ass is flirting (which she did under a drinking game)

her - I know, its hard... which it absolutely shouldn´t be at this point, we´ve just started dating! give me a day to think about it, I have to get ready for work, get of at 00:00, I´ll get back to you then or tomorrow. You should know that I like you, I just don´t know if I can deal with all this drama..

What should I reply, should I reply at all?

Now I replyed

me- thats the thing, I think you´re worth the pain. I almost never meet girls I really like

She won´t reply until tomorrow and I´m a bit unsure if I should say anything else. Because its true that I meet lots of women, but this is the first one I´ve liked since I got into the game

Swedishguy -

How long have you been after this girl? The fact that you've screwed her friend and made out with others doesn't help your cause. What really makes her so special?

Imagine yourself and her six months from now. How are you going to deal with her friends who don't like you, the fact that you can't change who you are and that you're going to flirt with other women, and the fact that your relationship has been about as stable as a middle eastern government.

We have a lot of examples of women like this in our book, and I wish I could go back in time to bitch slap my former self. And the thing is, it sounds like you've got some game, and for every moment you waste on her, you're missing out the girl that you should really be with.

I'd go MIA on her for a week. If it's meant to be, she'll find you. Then you can start fresh.

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We've met just four times these last two weeks. I'm not sure why I want her even, I just do. I do find her to be a perfect HB10 in my taste, maybe I´m obsessed. Since I sent my last text to her, I´ve got two of the girls I´m gaming wondering what I´m doing tonight. I´ve got a sexdate in which the girl said she was going to surprise me with something comming up. I´m not sure I can throw all that away

You say I got game? I do, but I´m very new with it. I´ve actually slepts with two of her friends, she doesn´t know about one of them though.

Ignore my confusion and just reply to the questions about my texting