so there's this girl i like and shes given me two dates shes free on today and coming Saturday. i didn't say anything today and a planning to make a move to set a date for Saturday. thing is Im going back to uni on Sunday and wont be back to the town where i met her till next year. so i need a good game plan to kiss-close with her or at least build attraction so she want me while im at uni. im planning to take her to a cafe and then movies then maybe back to hers ( all done subtly of couse like i didn't plan it). so routines, shit tests i need to be wary of, and how to kino properly etc. thanks guys i cant afford to mess this up

Hey k12. A year is an extremely long time not to see someone that u want to build a relationship with.

So don't to much pressure on yourself. Just have fun and make a move. If it doesn't work out, your going away for a year!

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This is true. Don't put pressure on yourself like that because you are setting your self up for failure.

Now the best way to put yourself in a position that allows game to happen is to offer to cook for her. Tell you've been meaning to try this bad ass recipe you saw on the Food Channel. Grab yourself a loaf of bread, some thing simple you can cook up(pasta), grab a touche bottle of wine, and a kickass movie that you'll both enjoy(superbad,roger dodger, hmm something that hints at sex). All throughout the cooking, just enjoy a really cool conversation, if you can incorporate her into cooking without than do so.

I recommend this because it allows you to be at her place already drinking and having fun. Comfort will already be established just by the fact that your in her home. A simple touch here and there, ask to see her bedroom, than things just happened.

If you can't start it out at her place, than you need to find a way too see her place. Something like offering to pick her up, and than asking to use the bathroom when you get there. If she lets you in once, she'll let you in twice.
As for the date, just make sure the venue you choose is nearby. You are going to need a reason to see her place. Something, Anything by the end of the night. Even if its just dropping her off at home, and than asking to use the bathroom(bitches cant say no to that lol). Once your in make a move, if it works, it works, if not University will have plenty of girls to take care of you.

Good luck friend.

Great advice guys. Ok let me get this straight. You want to charm her off her feet so that she'll want nobody else and wait a year for you,without dating other people? or am i wrong?
For that to happen you guys,had to have had a strong,physical, no hiccupped history and LUCK.. Anyway as for my advice for ya date,You can arrange alil trip thru town (Musuem,library, grab an ice-cream, take her with when u go shop for the dinner etc buildin lotsa memories in one date) i wouldnt take her TOOO the movies (we all know that cinema dates aint the best way to go). Rather bring the movie to her, you can invite her to your place for somethng to eat and movies. (cheat with take-out if you cant cook lol) or itll be even better if you can weasle it so that you can watch the flick at her place.hereby shes kinda isolated (leaving her wide open to game and for you to really kino escalate) id advise a comedy and then a horror movie but thats just me. And if it doesnt go that well,bruh Uni is an awesome place to better yaself at pick-up and kill your One-ItIts,hot young HB's everywhere (im startin Uni to this year,cant wait) anywho goodluck man.

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