Ok I have this girl who's a friend and I like her, we were texting daily but I stopped this about 3 weeks ago. I think enough time has went by to start it up again... my goal is to hang out asap...what should I say?

Be playful, be suggestive, don't refer to her as your friend via txt. You want to get the image and mentality out of her mind that you are friends, even if you don't come right out and say so.

I am in a similar situation.

But I do have a question about yours.....how long have you known her? What was the vibe in your texts (flirty? friendly? deep conversations? just chit hcat to pass the time) ?

A 3 week freeze out is good....perhaps a little too long in my opinion. Whatever your vibe was...when you reconnect you have to make sure you have built enough attraction and tension before you ask her out in the conversation.

If you are the ballsy type , you can just straight up mention you wanna take her out and see if there is a chemistry ( Say it in a playful way like....I get the vibe that you like me for than a friend, and I think you are cute and all but I want to take you out and see if I feel the same way).