bassically i just had a fall back to keep conversations going whenever you run out in your interactons and i wanted to get peoples feedback on what they thaught of the process.

so you get to that point where you ran out of things to say. my answer to the situation is to fall back on things that happend to you in your past. the idea is simple everyone has got memories that happend to them throughout their life. you might say yeah it is going to be hard to remember those stories in the heat of the moment but i have a answer for that.

bassically you start from the your early childhood and work your way up, so say you ran out of somthing to say. at that moment you should start with your early childhood story. it doesnt have to be real you could say somthing like "you know for some reason i think you were a little problem child when you were younger, what was somthing that you remember that you got in trouble for" and from there you can either tell her somthing fun that happend to you or you can make somthing up thats creative and build the conversation from there.

now say the conversation goes dead again you think to yourself that you need to go to your fall back again but you know you already used your early child hood fall back so go to the next age range. maybe say somthing like. i dont know why but i feel like when you were in 6th grade you were the type of girl that was breaking every little boys heart. and from there build a conversation about a girl you had a crush on or make somthing up.

so everytime the conversation goes dead you can fall back on your memories and work your way up. depending on how many times you fall back on these conversation motivators you can probablly easily get 20 minutes more of conversation from them.

anyway thats my idea i know its a bit long of a detail but im really interested in hearing what you guys think

Interesting idea, although i don't usually have a problem with this myself i may go out of my way and give it a go. keep me posted with any conversations

the only time ive had to use it so far was through text and it worked well, like you said i might just go out of my way to use it to see what kind of results it brings

If you run out of things to say (Not in Text Messages) when speaking to a chick personally, I would just listen to her then let her finish and not talk while she is giving me an interesting conversation and that will give you your next idea to your next conversation and then moving on till you get the rapport.



Hope this helps in your journey bro, Good luck!




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i wasnt really saying i had trouble keepin the conversation going, it was just an idea that popped in my head for if conversations do run out

lol i thought you needed help lmao


Interesting idea though. Might use that aswell in the future.




-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Good idea! Builds rapport and intimacy, and the "mind reading" opener is nice. I recommend using REAL stories though. Lying a lot has a tendency to backfire on you, and if it gets detected, even subconsciously, it sets you back.

Make sure you pick good stories, ones that are fun and make a person laugh or smile. Having her feeling BAD with you isnt going to move the seduction along.

Even better idea, create memories that never happened where the two of you are together. If you can tell a story of yours, and get a story of hers, still focusing on FUN stories, then the next step is to build on hers. Add yourself to her story, and get her to play along. Make a game out of it, (I'd call it "When We Were Little" and the bonus part is that as she's imagining the two of you together as children, it creates the FEELING you've known each other a long time, and have had fun together for years. Now that REALLY moves things along

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yeah thats a good thaught, i was just saying make up a story if in fact you didnt have any real stories that you remember. i agree with you that creating a story with both people involved will create a connection and can produce a lot of results just another thing to think about i guess

so you are saying if you run out of things to say fall back on memories, i will try this.

this technique sounds like a rapport building phase am I right?
can anyone think of another way to kill the awkward silence in the atraction phase?

yeah its more of a rapport thing seeing how your going to be talking about past things that happend to both of you.