Ok, this one's tricky, hope you're ready to think a little bit, because I'm out of ideas.

Been talking to this girl at work for about a week. She's an HB9 and a lesbian who lives with her girlfriend. I've built great attraction and some comfort with her. K-closed a few times with one really good makeout. Now, almost every time she sees me, she can't keep her paws off of me. She is constantly kinoing me, being very flirty, and otherwise giving me tons of IOI's. We've talked on the phone a few times, dirty texting and pics, etc. She is DTF.

Now's the tricky part. Her girlfriend works at the same place, sometimes on the same shift, and she's grown suspicious. The way that the 3 of our shifts overlap, it makes it nearly impossible to pick her up, or meet her anywhere without the girlfriend noticing. Also, the girlfriend almost always has the car. This is not a question of game, but of logistics. I wouldn't say I have a one-itis with this girl, but it's always right there in my face when I go to work. Details here:

My work schedule- Tues-sat 3P-11P
Her work schedule-Mon-Wed 8A-11P
GF's scheule- Wed-Sun 8A-3P and another job, unknown schedule

Every time we get something set up, her gf's schedule has changed, or comes home early. She doesn't want to ruin her deal with her gf, because that's the only place she has to live right now. I told her, "Cool, then maybe it's just not meant to be." But she insisted that we meet. I told her to let me know when and where. Anybody have any ideas?


-Ruggedized

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I remember in the chat, about a month back, I was talking to the guys about gaming a lesbian. Interesting observations there.

Anyway, to your situation..

You need to understand two things.

1 - Are you willing to step into her shoes to get her perspective? She's a lesbian, she likes women. Yes, she is enjoying the flirtation and attraction but at her core, you don' belong to the kind she's attracted to. Say a guy with superb game came up to you and "gamed" you, would you go gay for him? Would you? Important question. Ask yourself that.

2 - Is this interaction with her about a relationship, something meaningful OR just another notch on the bed but with extra sweetness 'cause you "nailed a lesbo"? If it's the latter, then you need to realize that she is already in a relationship and you're breaking it for your own gains. I do not condone doing stuff like that.

Making people go against their nature isn't a good idea in the long run. Eventually, they will want to go back to their old ways and the result isn't nice to look at. For everyone involved.

Think deeply about the pros and cons of such a move. There are so many single, straight women on this planet. Why go after the ones who like the V more than the P.

Regards,

Luke

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That's pretty deep insight, Luke. I actually never thought about it that way. Actually, I feel like an asshole now.

I'm so immersed in the game that it's like I'm not believing any of it is real. Things like relationships are simply obstacles, and you're right, it's not cool. I haven't broken a relationship before unless it was a "not so exclusive" boyfriend. I need to start interlacing the game into my actual person rather than have it as two separate entities. This is a wake up call. Having good game isn't just about self gratification.

Think I'll let this one go. Thanks for watchin out, bud.


-Ruggedized

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-A bad wingman puts the ass in assistance; a good wingman helps build the fort in comfort.
-You can't say overreact without saying ovary.