Something I like to do to have a great conversation, is to ask questions that entertain me. I'll ask something like, tell me about your first kiss, and it get's not just women but people in general to feel comfortable around you. If your having a good time listening to them, then they'll defiantly be having a great time. It doesn't have to be anything serious like that either, something you find curious about them.

Not meaning to highjack this thread. I just got into nlp and my first attempt brutally blew up in my face. lol. But my more subtle attempts have worked really well. For example through text a woman was saying that a guy offered her money to lick her feet. I typed. "weirdo. Or idk. I would maybe lick your feet but then I would start to work my way up your leg. Kissing slowly..." ect. She was really responsive. Anyway, where do you learn this stuff so that it can be integrated into common speech the way you have above? Asking a woman to close her eyes and imagine me touching her isn't exactly subtle. lol. I just don't get how you squeeze it into the convo without seeming like a weirdo... hence my bad experience.

I looked into Ross Jeffries and read his first book. I didn't bother any more with him after reading his advice to start crying if turned down for sex and guilt trip the woman. He seems like the most weaselly bastard alive. lol. Any particular books that are really good? NOT introduction to nlp, I read that.

Thanks for the tip, i'll defiantly start using it.