okay , some background information : this girl is in my first year university geography class and i would rate her about 8-9 / 10. I would say she is actually one of the hottest girls ive talked to over and over agian

so in class she sits infront of me , we always have conversations before class start , ussually about the class like when stuff is due , etc . and i'm not the only one who asks the questions so there is def . IO . she also mentioned she has a boyfriend . the class is going to end soon for the semester , as the next one is in a week.

I always think of asking her ..do you have facebook ? but never do. I looked her profile up and found her and have been thinking about just adding her and saying next time " haha i added you on facebook , i was looking at the discussion board on the class and saw your name and decided to add you "
would that be creepy?
also how can i keep this going once the class ends ..as i sorta already made the mistake of talking mostly about the class not really anything socail , etc

THANKS

i'm a noob too, so take this with a grain of salt. but i would think that assuming you've built up enough rapport with here, it wouldn't be a big deal. maybe minus the "ha, i found you on the class roster and added your name" part (a little creepy IMO). if you're gunna add her, just add her, she doesn't need to know the details of how you discovered her on facebook.

but what are you trying to accomplish? she said she has a boyfriend. were you hoping to use facebook as a way to escalate this into something else? i think you need to be clear and honest with yourself and really think about what your trying to accomplish with this girl. if you're serious about trying to pursue here despite having a boyfriend (no judgement here), i really doubt that facebook is going to be the way to go about it.

to be honest, i've found myself doing a lot of similar stuff. where i'll have a very specific view of the situation that i think is helping me work on my game, then i'll take a step back (maybe get some insight from a neutral party) and i'll realize that it's not really the situation i thought it was.

just my 2 cents.

-kamjah

Heya'

I've done this a few times. It's my facebook Gambit that works as an IOD / rapport builder. I simply while talking to a girl usualy after a DHV spike pull out my phone and pretend to check somthing on facebook. Don't make it too odvious but definately make sure she sees your on FB. She'll usually say," I love facebook i'm so addicted or some shit like that." Just say somthing like," ,"Are you cool enough to be my friend (make her qualify herself) and tease ect."

or just add her man there has been enough time between the two off you.

But really it sounds like you have a case of the dreaded oneitis.... I have had that problem too. Alot of good PUA's have simply said ," GET A YES OR A NO AND STOP BEING A FUCKING PUSSY AND MOVE ON."

I hope this helps man. Get an answer and move on you'll thank yourself.

BARON

thanks guys -
yeah i'll minus that part about the discussion board . fuck it , i'm about to just add her but now i realize having facebook open on your phone would work out ..thats actually a bomb way to go about it in the future. because im almost glad i didn't come out and say because :

"do you have facebook" almost seems a litte desperate in itself , like it shouldn't be something you go out and aspire to get , it should just be from browsing facebook at home and just happened to add her . and like ofcoarse she has facebook... pretty dumb question and everyone around you could probably here it . you wanna act like youve known the girl for years to the people around you in the class so it draws less attention.