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Hey, I would like to get negs explained. Lately I heard that my negs are insulting from a girl and I did have this feeling myself.
What I want to hear are the following things:
How to execute a neg correctly
What a good neg is
A couple of examples.
I really would appreciate some help here.
Thanks in advance
I'd be happy to do so. Remember that negs are back handed compliments and they are used to just be peppered into conversation during the early parts of meeting someone for the purpose of breaking rapport.
Here is the good looking girl and this guy is hitting on her. But unlike most guys occassionally he throughs out these negs to break rapport with her. Things are going well and then all of a sudden there is a little neg peppered in. You want to start throwing these after you open and typically after the set hooks and you're locked in.
Here is a huge list of negs to reference...
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In most cases women just need to have a few of these thrown in. The idea is things are going along line normal but then the guy breaks rapport. She doesn't quite know why he broke rapport with her and she wants to know why. This creates chase and attraction toward you. Most girls don't need a lot of negs in fact some need very few. Typically HB8 and under 2 negs, above that maybe 3. It really depends on the girl.
Remember that negs are not insulting and should be delivered in a half serious tongue in cheek manner...you're teasing not insulting. Lastly, be careful not to over neg the target which is something I've seen done a lot. In most cases you'll just piss them off.
I like using stuff like...mostly cause it doesn't hit her on a personal level but it implies she has something to learn about social dynamics so to speak.
You need to get more often....
Is she always like this....
Where is her off button....
Are you tourists or something....
Hope this helps clear a few things up.
CHAT