Ok so theres this girl I met through soccer. I go to a University and my friends and many more people always meet up at the fields to play pickup soccer. one day she came and I met her. She treat's me like the other guys (nicely/friendly). When she and this dude became friends on facebook, her friend 'liked' the thing that said '____ is now friends with ___'. I was interested in her but one day I noticed she uploaded a picture of her and that same guy guy. She uploads pictures of herself with other guys but this one seemed different. She is a popular girl but it seems like there is something going on between them, and they recently met. She even 'liked' the photo she uploaded of him and her, and they are doing that whole 'marry me' joke, although HE started it. She flirts/compliments other guys but idk. WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I WANT TO GET HER? AND DOES SHE LIKE THAT GUY? When I see her at the fields I just have small talk and stuff. I don't have her number and to be honest she doesn't seem to have much interest in me other than a friend, but I wanna change that. i've known her for a week and a half.

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aren´t you being a litle stalker? I Mean, you know everything is going on on her facebook.

yeah I am I guess. Idc help me lol

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im going thru the same thing but i fucked up and didnt escalate quickly so i gues im on the friends zone...

my suggestion and i could be wrong is to notice how everyone treats her on the soccer field. everyone is nice to her i am assuming. when ever u talk be the 1st one to leave or look away pretend your distraced. pretend she is nothing special. dont treat ther like the other guys. as for the dude she likes, women have this love map embedded in them. for example u see girls that tlike chubby guys and date chubby guys, black dudes, rockers etc etc. so if this guy fits her love map... ur kinda screwed. BUT again re invent ur self. for example invite some girls to play soccer with you and make sure she sees you coming with them. they dont have to be thte best looking ones as long aas they are females.. lol. that will provide pre selection. befriend her guy friend and figure out wat he is doing to get her. Maybe when you are all together try to be the LEADER of the group talk to everyone except her. if she says something to u ignore her or slighlty acjknowledge her until she u start to notice a change. whatever your are doingn is prob not working.

again bro this guy might fit her love map so he might have the advantage on you. also suggest inviting EVERYONE to watch a champions league game at ur house bar or something. that will show her that you ar social. if you invite her to a one on one to watch a soccer match she will most likley reject tthink that ur trying to get wit her. if your organize this this shows some leadership. dont forget and treat her differenlty than everyone else. THIS DOES NOT MEAN BE SUPER NICE. but dont be a complete dick lol.

well my man i hope everthing works out for you. this is what i would do. let me know how it goes... BEST OF LUCK and i wich you the best.

I think I'm on the right track. When I first met her, I did talk to her occasionally. When we were taking off our boots/shinguards after the scrimmage I didnt talk to her, I just said 'nice meeting ya, bye'. When I ran into her the second time, she was a lot more responsive. It was at a homecoming pep rally and she saw me crowd surf and start a mosh pit, so she noticed how fun/energetic I was. The third time I saw her was yesterday at the soccer tournament. I said 'hi' to her along with a little side talk and then left to my team immediatly. I didnt apporach her either, she was at the tournament official's desk at the same time I was when I said 'Hi'. I've been trying to come across as 'not trying'

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ok.. now that u come across as not trying.. invite her along with other people to a party/ or w/e social event ORGANIZED BY YOU. make sure u invite other females too. Also when u are all playing try some kino on her on the pitch. maybe try a ruff tackle and neg her... NO SLIDE TACKLE or coming from behind..lol. maybe in corner kicks defend her. talk to her in the game. have you thought bout that kind of kino.? lol

That's what my mates who I play soccer with said. They said "Next time we go to eat/hang out after soccer invite her". Most of the guys have girlfriends as well

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well they r right bro.. u know how? THEY HAVE GIRLFRIENDS..

go out there and do it man.. Trust me it easier than you think.. you can do it!

The guy screwed up. He defaulted their picture, and he wrote on her wall a few times and I can tell he blew his chance. she doesn't seem responsive to him at all. He's out of the game it seems . A wise man learns from other mistakes, and that mistake is to NOT go too fast

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