Hey,

I'm in a clinch. There's this HB7/8 i really like. And have kissed her 3 times, one time on a date. She's struggling a little bit now because of a funeral a couple of days ago. I'm not the guy to be all around girls(I do think about them alot, and discuss it with friends. This is a typical case of one-itis, but I really do want this)

She's given off numerous IoI's and all went well until this week. I snapped, and while being drunk at a party I was with her, approached her because she was being a stone cold b*tch. I told her I liked her, but that i just can't work with this stone cold approach after kissing and dating 3 times (i know it's probably hard to get, this is an extreme variant of it). She said she liked me too. but couldn't say the same yet. Later in the evening she got drunk as hell and danced/grinded with some dudes in a very annoying way (for me) I know she doesn't have to, because we don't have anything steady. Our friends are the same, and they told me I shouldnt give up on this, that she is playing hard to get, and they too said she was being ice and ice cold in it as well. Still they say: don't give up.

I sent her an email the day after explaining what I meant by liking her(because i think she took it the wrong way) and that I just can't work on this without some feedback from her. I basically rounded up by saying if this is just a flirt, she could just stop and we can both move on. I just need some feedback from her. This email was full honesty and no game at all.

She replied that she would call me yesterday and we should meet up next week (while not being drunk). She didn't though, she will call me tonight, and I don't want to go in unprepared. What do you guys think?

She is not someone who texts a lot, which I am. Could that scared her off as well?

you chasing her dude, and she keep on running. I be honest with you please dont take it the wrong way I only want to help. It sounds needy, try ignoring her for a week or 2, and if she calls say you busy, my point im trying to make is you got to make it look like you got better things to do. Goodluck bro

Thinking about this, should I tell her that I know that I have been chasing? The errors have been made, but if i can change this around to ignoring her, this could be epic.

Telling her you've been chasing is MAJOR DLV in my opinion. Take it slow. I usualy do not really like saying Im busy when they call because I managed to scare off a lot of girls with that. Somehow the start thinking yoyu're really not into them and pretty much stop aproaching you.

Just tell her : " Um , I don't really know if I got the time. Ill see what I can do." Eventualy you can go meet her. But hey,this is just me, Im not saying this is the best way to go.
One thing is clear tho. If you do meet up with her you pretty much gotta make it happen then are there.

yea I dont thing its a good idea to tell her you chasing, I read your post again, and she could be punishing you for 1. Being drunk 2. For ''snaping'' think about it I dont know all the details but you do. If that is the case you could say you sorry and go from there. Ask a wing or a mpua I could be wrong