Hey guys, new to the forums. Place seems wicked.

I'm in need of diar advice, I don't have much problems picking up women, some hot some not, i don't care.

Anyways I pulled some super hot chick 2 saturdays ago now, went back to hers and nailed the hell out of her. All was good, gave me her number.

Anyways, i kinda wanna see this chick again, but i dont think it is happening at all, she lives 40 miles away from me which is a downside i know.

Night goes like this, in club pretty drunk at a bar standing next to some chick. I notice this super hotty look at me, somehow (cant remember how, was drunk).
I pulled her, then ended up bombing around the nightclub with her all night, dancing, drinking going for cigarettes etc..

She palms off her mates to stay with me all night, we end up getting a taxi back to her parents pad (which was empty).
Didn't have sex at night, since we were both pretty steaming drunk.
Wake up in the morning, make her a drink, then fuck her.

We got along like a house on fire, like really well, loads in common, 1 year age gap between us.

I get her number, get a taxi home to mine alls good.

Anyways, i txt her the next day, get response.
Call her, get no response, she calls me. I awnser, we chat for 15 mins. I mention too her that I wanna see her again and im willing to travel the distance from mine to hers, which is 40 miles. No problems, i like her she is super hot.

I call her again about 15 mins later afer hanging up to ask her a question, no awnser, txt her asking the question. Get txt the next day with the awnser with no other conversation in it "asking me how i am bla bla"

I txt her just this saturday just gone, asking if she is having a good night, get no response.

Txted her today, no response, called her later on when she finished work, no response.

I think ive been pretty laid back about getting in touch with her, told her how i feel, and dont want to come across like a pest or too pushy.

tbh i havnt had much response from her at all since having sex with her, i wish it was different, so wanna meet this girl. But just getting no response from texts, getting no random txts, phone calls from her. Ive made all the effort and today not had anything back after txting and calling.

WTF do i do?

Nope, you've definitely been WAY too pushy and needy.

You texted her, then called her. You called her again 15 mins after talking to her, then texted her right after that. You keep attempting to contact her without getting any responses. That is definition of needy and pushy.

Plus your texts are empty and don't invoke any emotion in her or prompt her to HAVE to respond. She's not your girlfriend, so don't go asking her how her day was.

You also told her you wanted to see her again and told her "how you feel." BIG mistake.

You took away all the mystery and chase.

Delete her number and move on. Maybe she will text you after a few days of not hearing from you, but at this point she is probably hoping you'll just go away and leaver her alone.

Thanks for the reply mate.

I'll take onboard what you have said.

Turns out i have gotten a reply just now, says she has been having a really weird fucked up week and would like to catchup soon.

I mean if she didnt like me she wouldnt reply right?

Is there anything i can do to just get this chick more interested?

Is there any decent txt/phone call links, giving advice about this stuff?

I'm pretty decent at getting chicks into bed, but the afters im pathetic at since im pretty picky with relationships and lack experience in the afters department.

Basically its usually me ignoring texts....But like i this one. Shes a keeper.

Maybe it's Karma? Hope not.

Do a google search for either "The Txt Book," "B4 U TXT HER," or "The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game."

They are all very good.

I just want to add that the content, wording and energy of the text is very important especially when trying to get a date from a girl how doesnt know you well.

Don't over text, be funny, original, dont text girls at stupid times (8am, 5pm-dinner) This will increase your chances in getting a faster response. Read the books mentioned above or search "text game" on here. I cannot find the thread but it exists and I used it to model my texting game and almost have eliminated phones calls. Girls seem to have alot of fun when texting me now. Don't text regular boring shit like "Hey what's up", "How was your weekend?", ect... that's all boring. Use stuff like "Hey dork! What kind of trouble you causing today".

I wish I could be more helpful with this next tip, but I cannot find links. Anyways, it involves creating "roleplaying" through texts. This can be done after the interaction has been going well and the point of it is for her to have fun and for you to build comfort.

Roleplaying example I used. If the girl likes to travel, I would set up this travel partners idea and if she bites, I go into descriptive scenerio's of fun adventures we have together. This is not set in stone, it's obviously based on the girl and how the interaction is going but is really f'ing powerful tool. You can do this kind of shit with all types of stuff but it has to transition smoothly or it will come off wierd. I find that roleplaying will imprint you into her memory(which you just made for her) and will help her to feel more comfortable and reduce flaking 100% if done right.

I'm kinda babling, the point is.... read the books and you will get good text and phone game.

Oh and congrats on laying some fine ass! If nothing else comes from this, atleast you has success in field!

This is such a difficult situation. I think she has decided that the distance is too far, or you aren't what she wants right now. You won't be given a lot of opportunity to really change this around, so you will have to be creative if you want more chances. I personally avoid trying to get most girls that suddenly change their act. Makes me think they're hiding something, or they're bipolar or something like that. If you need some ideas, I suppose I can help you out with one though that will give you some fighting chances! No promises though,

Text her saying something like, "alright baby I'll be there in a couple minutes! You're ready to go right?" Her response will be some indication of confusion like, "What? What are you talking about?!" Then you could be like, "we're booked for a fabulous Hawaii vacation for two!" Then she will most likely send some kind of cynical response like, "uhh no." Then you say something like, "Hm well then instead how about coffee on forest ave?" (or beer, or whatever). That could very well get a good response.

The point is to undermine her opinion of you as a needy attention seeker, and then surprise her with the reality that you aren't.

Either way, don't let it get you down if it doesn't work out, you are obviously a good PUA, and with practice, the fish will stay on the line longer!

You guys have been really helpfull. Thanks so much. I took your advice and downloaded a couple of txting guides etc... they are the shit. Some of the ideas in them are brilliant lol.

Anyways, we've been in touch every now and again through txt, not spoke to her in a while though.

I have deffinately learnt to be alot more patient.

Thanks again.

/respect

Turns out i think she is generally not arsed, really fucking annoyed me.

Not heard from her in a while, txted her, not a peep back.

Txted her wishing her happy birthday, nothing back.

Ultimate gayness. WHY......

Why are HOT chicks always fucking impossible to keep a hold on too. Fucking does my head in...