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| Pixulated | PostPosted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 8:13 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 24, 2010 8:27 pm Posts: 21 Location: London | | Right so I am playing text game with this HB8. I asked to take her out for dinner and she basically replied with "Give me a good reason why she should go out with me?" What should I reply with? Something on the lines of "Well actually, beauty is common so you are going to need to tell me what your special qualities before we def make a date..." What should I do guys?
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| tenonine | PostPosted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 8:50 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue May 17, 2011 11:32 pm Posts: 92 | | Sounds like you didn't build enough comfort / rapport with her in advance of asking her on the date. So this is a tough one to save. In fact, I don't think there's a clever way to turn it around. What you really need is to see her again in a group setting, to start building more comfort and attraction.
Text game isn't my specialty, but if I were you, I'd respond with "Just one?" That is, one reason she should go out with you. You're implying that there are dozens -- millions -- of reasons for her to go out with you.
By showing humor you demonstrate that you're unfazed by rejection, and there's a (slight) chance that this works as a DHV.
And that means that you have a *chance* to create attraction the next time you bump into her. I just think convincing her to go out on a date is pretty unrealistic. There's only so much you can do with text game.
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| TheFreshPrince | PostPosted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 9:14 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Jun 08, 2011 9:13 pm Posts: 579 Location: Bel Air, CA | | Also, show her that you can take her or leave her. You don't have to qualify yourself to her. If you have an attitude of "If you're not really into this, then just say so" and "I don't need to go out of my way to prove myself to you, what can you bring", she'll realize that you have standards, and that's an immediate DHV these days, because most guys don't have standards, sadly. _________________ Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"
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