| I'm new to PUA and trying to pick up a few ideas. I have read a lot into the information on this site so I have pretty much answered my own question already, but I was wondering if the community here had any other suggestions.
***Foreground***
So I gamed this girl, got her number, text her a bit and we figured out we live in the same apt. complex around my university. So she is all excited and stuff and said she was gonna stop by and say hi when she got back from hanging out with her friends (this is around 8pm or so). I say ok and dont hear anything from her for a while so Im like whatever and go to bed. She calls me at like 4am in the morning wanting to come over and say hi. I tell her some other night because I am real tired and have class in 5 hours which I did (I would've scored, I know...Im gonna call it showing disinterest) I like my sleep lol. So we see each other around, and text a bit then she invites me over to her place to watch tv. She is cleaning when i get there and we eventually decide to go get a scary movie. We end up laying on her bed, lights off, door shut. We talk a bit and kino, but I didn't want to escalate that night because that isn't the type of guy I am. We head over to her friends house where we meet up with her friend and these guys. Turns out, I know the guys and we hit it off (social proof?). The other guy is trying to score, so I have to play Divide & Conquer for my bro, which failed horribly btw, cause I couldn't get them to separate. I leave, and thats that.
*Important part*
1) I text her the next day with "hey diva" ( alittle inside nicknaming and teasing). no text back. so w/e.
2) I text her a day later with "Party tonight". got nothing. said nothing. so w/e I text the next on the list.
3) Two days after that, I text her "Wanna Smoke?" ( I wouldn't ask her if she hadn't said she wanted to the first night) Got nothing. Said nothing back.
I haven't text her since.
The only thing I am trying to do is learn from my mistakes. What did I do wrong to lead up to her not texting back? Not escalating? I doubt, but if there are any, does anyone have suggestions on repairing the situation?
I don't want it to be awkward, because it turns out she is in a sorority that is a sister sorority to my fraternity so we will definitely be seeing each other alot in the future.
P.S. Please be KIND!
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