So basically, I've basically built up enough rapport/comfort with this girl such that on the day we hungout (this past Wed), I was able to test the waters based on slowly building some kino . (Note: I went slow on this because she does have a bf) By the end of the night, although we did not makeout, she had her head on my lap with my arm around her and her holding my arm. Before she left, I did a little compliance test and had her kiss both my cheeks as she giggled. I saw her the next day when I said I was going to Starbucks and if she wanted to go buy me a latte (which she did). I also suggested we go bowling, which she complied (and paid for) too as well. Fun time bowling and on our way out, she was holding onto my car keys in her bag and she wouldnt give it to me when I asked for it...so I reached around her with both arms and tickled her between her thighs (she was wearing a low cut skirt) until she gave m her purse. I also took her hair clip as "collateral" until I saw her again. We've texted throughout the week, almost everyday (completely flirty). On Friday, I didn't respond to her texts and waited until today to get back to her (trying to cool down the text and challenge her). Today she responded and said she was going to have to resched Wednesday's plans because she had to sort out priorities with applications for schools and that when she catches up to that, we can go. So basically I told her that's fine and to get back to me when she's good to go. What do you guys think she is thinking? Am I doing the right thing now? Thanks

She fancies you but she want's to be faithful to her boyfriend I guess. Your call if you want to pursue or not.

Nobody knows what she's thinking but her, the more u try to mindread the worse off and less natural you'll be around her.

I'm in a similar situation. I've hung out with this girl once (last Friday night). Similar things happened, she rested her head in my lap, wrestled with me, stared in to my eyes, I went in for a kiss but I got rejected. I was confused at first since I had plenty of IOIs. She then told me she had a bf. We spooned and both fell asleep. She gave me a kiss on the cheek in the morning. I gave her my number and she texted me later that day and told me thanks and that she had a lot of fun.

Her boyfriend is long distance (5 hours away). I did connect really well with her, we had great conversations and overall a ton of fun. We've been texting the past few days.

I'm not sure exactly what to do here. Do I try and hang out with her again? Should I wait for her to suggest it?

I got an update guys. So I ended up going to Barnes and Nobles (where I first met her and also where we meet sometimes) yesterday. And I saw her car there yesterday, so I saw her sitting at the cafe. I greeted her and sat down next to her and we studied/chatted/listened and watched music videos. I also mentioned how she was going to make it up to me for canceling out hangout for this Wed and she said we'll go next week.

After, we went to Starbucks to continue or chat and studies with of course my teasing and bantering (just small stuff to interfere playfully with her studies). After Starbucks, I said let's go get some disco fries (diner food), but she was kind've whiny/reluctant to go because she said it was not healthy so late night (the gist of it). So as we walked back to her car, I picked her up and grabbed her and brought her to my car and told her we're going with a joking, playful look. And she got in and did a little pathetic whimper sounding cry (lol) and got in the car.

We went to the diner and had our food and chatted. She talked alot about her family, background, and like funny experiences. She asked me questions of approval or rather interview questions about like my favorite food, cereal, favorite time of the year, funny stories blah blah. Before we left, I said I forgot my wallet in the car, and she said she was going to cover for me anyway.

When I dropped her off at her car (back at starbucks), she gave me a kiss on the cheek and then I pointed at the other cheek and she smiled and complied. When we got home, she texted me a bit and then i didn't reply to her last text and went to sleep...

What do you guys think of the situation now?

now i'm no pua, but from any standpoint

i can say that you're her go to man if she gets in a fight with her bf. or... you're friend zoned.

but since you're keeping the kino up, i'm going with my first thought. otherwise i'd be going with my second thought.