Hey guys, i got a quick question for you. I went to an introduction weekend from my studie, and i had the chance to game some girls. I managed to get à good reputation, and people are always comming to me for à chit-chat of à laugh.
But i got some doubts about one particulair chick. I have done some gaming on her, and i tried to use more kino as i do normally (sticking point for me). She allowed me to smell her hair on the first day, and i noticed that she came to me during a long walk.
We chilled that nicht on my room with a group, and she was there to. I invited her to sit on my bed. It didn't take long before we laid to eachother. She stayed with me till 02.30, while everyone in my room was allready asleep.
THE next day she came to me on à regular base, and she didn't care of we sai knee to knee. But the last day she suddenly turned cold on me, and i haven't spoke het since then. Can i solve this problem, and what have i done wrong? (i guess i waited to long, and the window of opportunity crushed down right in my face)
Ty for reading, and i hope that you can help me

Sounds like you didnt escalate fast enough or its a personal issue with her(ex-bf couldve entered back into her life). But elaborate more on the last time things were "good" between you two and the time she went "cold" on you. From the information given, id say the best thing to do is invite her to some party or venue where you can dance and escalate the kino. Shes definitely interested, so dont too get down on yourself. You have all year to work things with her so be patient.

BTW, im in college too, man. What year are you? Freshman?

Ehm she went colder after the first party, and i guess mainly because it tool long for me to go. I stayed long on my room just to chill wij some friends (im more a chiller then à party animal), when arrived she immediatly came to me and said: wow you are finally here. I talked to her for à few mins, and she left to get à drink. I haven't spoke to her the rest of the night (i should have taken the inniaive). I saw her talking to soms Guys but i couldn't care less. The next day she came like 3 times to me, and i had cleaning duty with her. She acted normal in this situations, but she was following and older year all THE time. I had à lil chat with het in THE bus rode back, bit we haven't spoke on school yet.
Im seeing het on à lot of the parties, and ik wondering to ask her to study together.
Hoe should i treat het on school, invest time or not; and should i FB close her? Ty for helling me, and yea im à freshman

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Like i said before, stay patient. But at the same time, if theres a good opportunity to escalate, you need to, like that party. Being late to a party can actually be a good thing, but you shouldve talked to her a little bit more once there. If shes talking to guys, you talk to some girls. Even if its for a minute or two. Show her that you have value with other people at the party. But once you see an opportunity to talk to her, do it. You coulda brought her back for a smash session that night easily if you were more forthright.

It sounds like she comes up to you A LOT, so shes definitely interested. Theres really no need to add her on FB right now unless she adds you first or the subject of FB comes up in a conversation. Another option would be to invite her and her friends to your room for a pregame session. Its a more intimate setting. It'll set the tone for the rest of the night and allow you to build more confidence/rapport with her.

Oké thanks, i know what to do now. I'll keep my cool, and talk to her whenever i see a good opportunity. When i got à chance to escelate i will, and in the other time i'm going to enjoy the pressence of other girls around me. There is a big festival in town next week, so i guess i get my chance then.